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best private school for 4 years old

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mellysmummy · 13/03/2022 16:43

Hi all,
Me and my husband looking for a private school for our 3 years old daughter. We live in Cutty Sark near Lewisham in South East London. She is so sensitive and shy child, English is her third language currently. We are looking for a private school that improves her confident. We searched majority of local private preps and schools only but your personal advice and experiences will help us to decide. Meanwhile we moved to England recently so we do not have too much friends or family to discuss it - so it is more difficult for us to decide. We want to go for private as I mentioned my daughter is so shy I do believe she will flourish in small group more and also I would like her to stay at school until 16:30- 17:00 at least 2-3 days in a week. So its needs to be somewhere that she can get instruments, dance and/or language lessons after school time. The system is also not so familiar to us... For example preps are up to year 6 after that the students needs to get in to the 11+ exams. I would like the know... competitions for the private schools in this area? One of my husbands friends told us that secondary schools only offer place to 5-10% applicants. Is the competition like that in this area as well? If it its sounds risky. But if she can easily can get a place in one of the private secondary schools after preps it is ok... we do prefer small, warm and friendly school for her. I know my daughter is still 3 years old and too early to think about the secondary or 11+ right now but as I do not the system, I don't want to make wrong decision and then change her school later on.
Thank you.

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Ilikepinacoladass · 13/10/2023 12:21

ChnandlerBong · 13/10/2023 07:04

@Ilikepinacoladass wow you dug this post from 18 months ago to ask that?!

I just don’t know any kids who have been turned away at 3 or 4. They may have lots of applications but if each kid is also applying to Pointers/BP/Dunstans/Farringdon’s/wherever then that doesn’t make it oversubscribed.

also doesn’t stop it bring a good school

HTH

I agree it's a good school. I found it through researching the school:-) that's good to know, we went to a 4+ assessment recently and there were lots (over 40 children) there and only 20 places available. I agree some will be applying elsewhere, but a few parents I spoke to were only applying to there. So it seems inevitably some won't be offered a space.

Ilikepinacoladass · 13/10/2023 12:24

Ilikepinacoladass · 13/10/2023 12:21

I agree it's a good school. I found it through researching the school:-) that's good to know, we went to a 4+ assessment recently and there were lots (over 40 children) there and only 20 places available. I agree some will be applying elsewhere, but a few parents I spoke to were only applying to there. So it seems inevitably some won't be offered a space.

They also made it clear that some would get waiting list, and some would get a straight out no. So they are selecting some how. But fingers crossed competition isn't as great as it seems 🤞🤞

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