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Atheism / Church of England school

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Starbuck8419 · 26/02/2020 15:06

Ok, first of all, this thread is not an attack on any religion. I’m not here to debate the rights/wrongs/truth or facts about anyone’s beliefs. I’m merely asking for advice especially from people who have been in this situation before.

My husband and I moved from a large town so we could raise our daughter in the countryside/village atmosphere. Part of the allure was the small village type schools which we are lucky enough to be surrounded by two good/outstanding rated ones.
Our daughter started in September and when we went to visit, the head showed us round and we asked him how our atheist beliefs fit in with the C of E teachings and philosophies.
We are aware that every school must follow the national curriculum but we essentially wanted to know how religious it would be there on a day to day basis.

The head advised us that even though it’s a small school only about five families are practicing christians and they have a small prayer corner in each classroom because they have too and anything else is essentially, tick boxing. A child/family could be as religious or non religious as they wanted without it being thrown down our necks.

In the past few months I’m starting to get a different insight into it though.

They have assemblies where parents can go and it’s very religious. One of the teachers is a devout Jehovah’s Witness yet she presumably (given the age group she looks after,) teaches science and yesterday my daughter came out with ash on her forehead.

Now look, before anyone says “it’s a c of e I don’t know what you expected” please remember I never went to this type of school. This is my only child so I have no experience of this sort of thing and the school wasn’t quite sold to us in this way.

I’m just wondering if anyone else is an atheist and sends their kid to a Christian school and how they deal with these sorts of things?

Thank you xx

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Starbuck8419 · 05/03/2020 21:52

Nothing at present. I’ve done my bit now and been advised to drop it.

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Danimow1 · 08/03/2020 12:59

I am a child of atheists and went to a C of E primary and a Roman Catholic secondary (they were good schools and the alternatives were dreadful!). My parents talked to me about what different people believed if the subject of religion came up and explained their beliefs (or lack of). They encouraged me to think for myself and question what I was told about religion in a respectful way. I was taught about all religions at school, particularly in secondary, so although I had to endure mass every now and then, sing hymns I didn't like, have someone put ash on my forehead etc I'd say RE was pretty diverse. I've come out of it all an Atheist (as are my 4 siblings) but I have a good understanding of those 2 faiths and a healthy amount of cynicism about religion in general.
My kids go to non faith schools as luckily they are the nearest ones but I wouldn't be concerned if they had gone to faith schools.

Yurona · 09/03/2020 20:03

Our school is officially CoE, but there are not a lot of christian kids, and the christian kids are mostly not CoE.
They teach in a very balanced way, “some people believe” for all religions, including christianity. We are atheist/agnostic, and that has never been a problem.

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