DD is 5, in Y1. Over the last two weeks, several children including DD have been made to miss break time, including the opportunity to eat their snack - some of them multiple times.
We spoke to the teacher who basically confirmed what we thought had happened: DD hadn't completed her work so was made to do it during break time - unsupported, hence it took her a long time. She said that if a child hadn't completed work due to not staying on task (rather than due to it being beyond their abilities) then that the child will be kept in at break time - that is her classroom policy. She said she believes the children will learn quickly not to mess about.
So she seems to be seeing it as something children are choosing to do. Whereas at age 5 (some of them are really only just 5; DD is a bit older but not yet 5.5), IMO, many children struggle to remain on task simply because their concentration span is short and they need many breaks and opportunities to run about and move. Yes they need to learn to work independently and stay on task for longer periods, but perhaps they need a little help to get there. Telling a child 'you need to stay on task' is not going to make the child more able to stay on task. If a 5-yo struggles with concentrating, they need support not punishment; more breaks not less. Anyway those are my thoughts.
So personally I find it pretty outrageous that 5 year old children are routinely (this has been happening pretty much every day) being made to miss their break time. I think it won't improve their learning, their behaviour, or their happiness - on the contrary, I feel it will have a negative effect on all three of those aspects.
But there is nothing I can do, is there?
DD is asking every day to not be made to go to school (that happened maybe once a month in reception). She even schemes to create situations where she might be kept home (she told me she was trying to stay awake as long as possible, so she would be too tired to go to school the next day - she and her older brother have both had occasional days where they didn't get enough sleep for some reason, but never have I let either of them off school for that, so she is clutching at straws really). She says school is 'boring' - what she means is that they never get to play. The teacher confirmed that they do not have play/choosing times anymore, at all. DS a few years back in Y1 still got plenty of opportunities to play, even in Y2 occasionally, but now the (different) teacher says that there can't be any 'learning through playing' in Y1.
Was DS particularly lucky to have a warm, gentle atmosphere at school where children were treated age appropriately? Is the norm more like DD's experience, where Y1 means all work no play, and punishments and consequences, and when children come out of school crying, they are told they need to be more resilient?
- Or is DD particularly unlucky, whereas most children will have an experience more like DS's?