Hello. Hoping for some realistic advise on appealing refusal into our first pick school for DD who is due to start reception in Sept. We’re located in Wiltshire. Basically our daughter is settled with the worlds best childminder, who is only able to accommodate the school run for our first pick. We didn’t get an offer, and where she was originally 3rd on the waitlist, she’s now dropped to 4th.
We’re a military family, and have worked really hard to create a stable environment for DD, and the support we get from our childminder is the only thing that keeps me going as a working mom when hubby gets deployed. We did try to find care that accommodated the other school that is truthfully closer to where we live when we first moved here, but there was zero options that worked available. The school we prefer is not that far away as the town we live in is small.
Since applying, we’ve also found out we’re expecting with #2 due early July. We have already arranged for our childminder to take #2 when I go back to work in Feb when baby is only 7 months old. We cannot lose our childcare as this completely screws our family over. I cannot give up the place for #2 and feel sick at having to find a new setting for DD, removing her from her new sibling and an environment she knows, trusts, and is settled in. I don’t pick up until 6pm and having to pick up two children at two different settings means we won’t get home until 6:30/6:45 at night meaning our already limited time together as a family on week nights is significantly reduced as once we get in it’ll need to be straight into bedtime routine for DD - no bonding time as family, and no bonding time for siblings. Not to mention the stress that would be having to drop off at two locations. We already drop off for 7:30am and would have to leave even earlier. This whole things has made me absolutely sick and on the verge of tears all the time.
Advice needed - what are my honest chances of success based in the above? Or how would I be able to determine if a mistake had been made? The walk to school would be via a path vs road so not sure distance, not that it actually matters as the childminder does the school run.