I hate phonics and am educated to Post Grad level, my children all learned to read despite having unrestricted access to children's books and a mixed method of taught phonics at school and free range at home.
How lucky for you not to have a child who falls into the 20% category! And how predictable of you to assume that, just because your child was read to, they obviously wouldn't be at risk.
And that's all it was - luck. There is no way to predict which children will fall into the 20% category. They can be children who've been read to since the day they were born or children who haven't seen a book outside the classroom walls. Children with a specific difficulty or not.
It's a typical view that pops up sooner or later that phonics teaching must therefore not promote enjoyment of reading - no idea why. Any method of teaching decoding obviously promotes enjoyment also, or what's the point? As for Rosen, he's a popular political figure who I'd go to to engage my Y5s/Y6s in wonderful poetry, but not someone I'd want to talk to absolutely about teaching children to read, since it isn't his role. It's mine, so I use my experience and the wealth of recent studies to support my teaching, and every single child learns to read.
I've never yet seen a child who enjoys books fail in reading. I now tutor and I have some who have lovely handwriting and fluency in yr7 but are really held back on comprehension having fallen through the gaps as they are decoders. It's not just in reading, but also a big factor in maths, comprehending the questions.
This kind of opinion has led to many a guilt tripped thread on MN, but the view that these lovely children who are surrounded by books from the day they were born will read anyway is a fallacy, I'm afraid. Osmosis isn't an accurate teaching method, and these children can just as easily fall into the 20% as anyone else. It's common to see this kind of 'I'm alright, Jack' attitude in a parent who is fortunate enough to have a child in the 80% category.
I now tutor and I have some who have lovely handwriting and fluency in yr7 but are really held back on comprehension having fallen through the gaps as they are decoders. It's not just in reading, but also a big factor in maths, comprehending the questions.
Again, all decoding methods must be taught alongside comprehension. How much more difficult would your tutoring be if they couldn't actually decode in the first place?