Irvine, you are really confusing me now. I didn't know a thing about your background and can't see how you may have felt I was referring to your nationality or education! It has, as far as I can see, nothing to do with this thread?
When I referred to personal stuff I just meant that you kept insisting I was not a kind person to have been anonymously honest about my feelings on my preschool manager's literacy levels, and that you made assumptions about the circumstances in which I live, insisting I must have other options available for my child. I should never have 'risen' to your first comment directed at me, and should not have carried on with an argument which has become quite an unpleasant tangent to an otherwise interesting and valid thread. Let's leave it now.