A parent not being able to read is NOT a good reason for the child not to read. The books are accessible for the children and they should be able to read approximately 80% of the words independently. The parent can help by discussing the story, what comes next etc, from the pictures and from what the child has read. But I have had plenty of parents who couldn't read and all of them read with their child and signed their book daily, after my intervention. Teamed with sending books home that they have read with an adult in school, it is the ethos that we are changing in families. I am not prepared to give the message 'your parents cant read so it doesn't matter too much if you cant'.
Rather than low esteem, it creates the opposite effect. Children start reading and then loving the feedback read more. Then homework participation goes up and everyone brings something in. Homework goes into a class book (I do a termly 'menu' where children get to choose which home learning to complete) or photos of things they make. All the children bring something in. Parental involvement goes up too.
I guess it depends on the ethos of the classroom. I think regular posters will by now know that I live and breathe both reading/home learning and growth mindset.
My view is, they are so young and I have them for only one year, that it is critical that we get all this in place ready for the rest of their lives, to make them love reading.
Kinglooie - I have never had it that a child never virtually reads. I have two children in my class now that have not read at all this term. I will prove my point by ensuring they are part of the 100% that are reading daily!
Sproglets, one could argue that if a child is doing all the after school club stuff, then they are probably fully involved with parents anyway and so reading isn't so critical because they read plenty of other times anyway.
That said, my expectation is that the children read at least 3 times a week so we can change books on a Monday, Wednesday and Friday. If you cant ensure that then yes, a child is being failed.
I believe that reading with a child every day is just as fundamental a right as food and drink. If you cant find 5 minutes to read with a child, then don't have so many.
mrz yes the child that doesn't make it to the rocket is the one in need of reading the most. That is exactly why we should do everything we can to make it happen, by educating parents, reading with children and putting in an ethos that makes children want to read.
My children (in my class) don't read because I tell them to. They read because we have a whole class ethos that reading is simply an amazing thing to do.