Hi ToffeeApple
If you want to know the reason residency was changed I have a post from last year I put on last August/September.
I can confirm it was the opposite of what you believe and I've never obstructed contact with my DS to his father. In fact I offered open contact which he never took up... Then he went to Court after I'd trusted him with a temporary arrangement which I'll regret for the rest of my life.
My ex used falsehoods against me which I can now disprove.
In addition to this assessment obstruction, he also has obstructed and been untruthful about medical appointments of which I can also sadly prove.
I am a rational person who has been a victim of our justice system.
At the end of the day his solicitor quoted the head's viewpoint as being his reason to not allow the assessment. Mainly because it meant time out of school. The Head has now confirmed the schools stance on this and I can discredit him on the points in his letter. The most upsetting thing is my DS has been used as a pawn to hurt me but it is my DS who is hurt.
What I require are Eductional facts from the school so that when my DS has his assessment via the DI, true comparisons can be made. I'm not looking to point score and use my child... I'm wanting to support him as best I can as I always have.
The school used the results from the last two assessments to help my DS settle in as he was new to them. These were given by me freely to aid the transistion for my DS.
The fact remains that my DS had a writing assessment done (the whole class did) and I haven't been supplied with the result after I've asked on more than one occasion. Surely it's quite a normal question. The only reason I knew about the assessment at all was because my DS was upset after it as he felt he hadn't done well. I asked about the result at a meeting with the SENCo (she said she'd find out from the class teacher) and two emails later... The last one in April... I still haven't officially been told.
I am going to ask to collect my sons books on Friday, but I do have screen shots of some of his work as evidence from the parent's day. I have books from his last school where his handwriting is neater and he was achieving more in class.
I really am not trying to cause trouble or upset things... I just want to be absolutely prepared for the hearing and am very aware that his school closes on Friday.
My concerns with the school have been relayed to Cafcass and my DS has now spoken to Cafcass regarding his wishes and feelings. I'm just trying to bring it all together. I hope this makes sense.