I've just been on a Church education course where the Priests were telling us that actually asking for any form of church attendance record breaks a 2002 law
The priests were talking complete and utter rubbish. The only 2002 law that is even vaguely relevant is the Education Act and that has absolutely nothing to say on the subject at all. Almost all faith schools use church attendance to give priority. That is perfectly legal.
Surely an independent appeal is not so with a VA school are they not on the panel
The appeal panel must always be independent regardless of the type of school. The panel must not include anyone connected with the school or previously connected with the school.
I can't help to think that if I raised it I would become seriously disliked by the school and the church
They should be more professional than that.
If their system relies on honesty then I can't see that there is anyway to prove attendance so would they have to withdraw all church places and reallocate
They cannot withdraw places. The appeal panel would have to work out who should have been admitted. If that gives more successful appeals than the school can handle the panel will have to decide how many to admit and choose the most deserving cases.
I don't know how many church places were gained and any distance info or siblings numbers
If you ask the school they must answer your questions. They are required to answer any question you ask (within reason) to help you prepare for your appeal.
I can't see if we would have got a place even without those that have dodgy church attendance filling up spaces
The appeal panel will have to work that out if they accept that the vicar has been signing forms incorrectly.
Sorry no sympathy
As far as I am concerned I always sympathise with anyone who has been cheated out of a place regardless of whether or not I happen to agree with the admission criteria.
We all pay taxes and have every right to send our children to any school of our choosing
No you don't. You have the right to express a preference. You do not have the right to choose.
The sooner the church are stopped from being a factor in who does or doesn't get places in schools paid for by tax payers money the better
Provided you are willing to pay the taxes needed to buy the land and buildings of all the church schools, and replace those funds currently provided by the church that is a perfectly respectable position.