I am a very qualified LSA. I have a great relationship with the child I work with (not just my say so, also according to the teachers, SENCO, OT, ST and the child themselves!). The child is making huge progress. I spend every minute I am on the site (including my breaks, barely get a wee...), many minutes at home and lots of my own energy, belongings, money, resources doing the best I can for my charge. I work really hard, try really hard, get results.
But I am afraid the parents of the child I support have got so much into "fight" mode that I may well quit. I have not had a positive communication from them in the time I have been there. But daily negative gripes, complaints, grumbles. I cannot stand it any more.
I am happy to admit that many of their queries are reasonable. But (1) there are ways and ways of asking things (I am a human, a please is nice!), (2) not every complaint should go to the LSA - if you don't like what the Head has done, please complain to him, not via me, (3) a little positive feedback from time to time would go a very long way.
Parents are right to work for their children, of course they are. They are right to ensure their children's needs they are met.
But please don't fight so much that you ruin what is working.
I am told the child's mother has said that she is delighted by my work. I wish I could see that in her attitude to me. I am no longer able to take a daily dose of criticism when I no I can do no more than I am.