Right, I have had a quick look through some of the posts (23 pages is too many...).
My apologies, Malenky, you were polite to start with and my posts can be very provocative (and not always intentionally! I should think more about the tone of my writing before I post). I have a bad tendency to start out very provocative and questioning, but will happily temper my opinions if people who obviously know what they are talking about explain things to me in a way that I understand. Sometimes it takes a while for what someone else is saying to sink in and sometimes what someone says gets me interested in something not entirely related to the original post, which is no doubt confusing for anyone joining a thread after a break. However, I never pretend I meant one thing when I meant another. I am always as brutally honest about my own mistakes as I am of others'.
Basically, I still do not understand a lot of what you have tried to explain about how you comprehend letter shapes and sounds, or how you think children comprehend them, and I do not appreciate you attributing that to an inability on my part to comprehend basic English. Also, on pages 16 and 17 of this thread, the thread quite clearly started talking about learnandsay's and justtalking's adult strategies, or lack thereof, for learning how to spell new words. When I then commented on my adult strategy for spelling a word I didn't yet know, you then accused me of conflating one idea with another. You were the one doing that, I was not - I was commenting on my adult strategy for spelling a new word, because that was what was being talked about at the time, I was not talking about what I thought a child might do, or linking it in any way to what a child might do, because the conversation at that stage was not actually about children. Obviously, I can see that you would have wanted it to be a conflation, because your whole argument was that I couldn't tell the difference between how children learn and what adults do, but I most definitely was not the one conflating anything... You also complained that people were conflating reading with spelling. However, the original OP did that, so it was an unfortunate thread to be commenting on if you didn't like the two being mixed up.
Finally, who told you that you shouldn't be on this thread because of your dyslexia? I saw that learnandsay suggested you should start another thread summarising your "difficulty," but my comprehension of that, given the context (ie nobody was talking about dyslexia) was she meant your difficulty in dealing with the conflation of reading with spelling, because that's what you were both talking about at the time. If you interpreted that as a dig about your dyslexia, then I think you were being paranoid, although to suggest you should not be on this thread for any reason whatsoever was not acceptable - it's up to you where you post and what I have understood of what you posted on here, I have found very interesting. I just don't find it any easier to get my head around nameless letter shapes than you do to get your head around giving letter shapes names. That's no reason to tell me I don't understand basic English.