ByTheWay1 - I have seen many people holiday abroad and the limit of their cultural exploration, beyond the boundary of their hotel, is finding the nearest British cafe/ McDonalds. So no, it is not simplistic to suggest that, for some people, there is no cultural exploration or learning/mastering of a foreign language.
I speak from experience - I am half Greek Cypriot and I know people who have visited Cyprus many, many times and they haven't ventured off the tourist tracks, but they and their kids can say Yiasou, parakalo or efharisto - but that does not mean they've explored the Greek Cypriot culture or immersed themselves in the Greek language! Just because you, myself and others explore the local culture, language and go off the 'beaten track' on holiday, doesn't mean it is necessarily the norm...
I also think that, as your DH is serving in the forces, it would be a very mean HT that refused to authorise your holidays.
Fallen - I think that would be a very interesting exercise. One of DD's friends has just come back from Greece and, when I asked her what she did, she said 'We went to the waterpark, and had Pizza Hut and McDonalds!'
