Hey all! Please be gentle as this is my first post after many months of lurking.
Just wondered what everyone thinks of this really. I don't wish to sound unkind in any way so please bear with me.
My dd failed her 11 plus by 10 points despite being the cleverest girl in her class (sorry, not crowing - there's nothing worse than mothers who do that on a regular basis). She was at 5a in all her Mock SATs (don't get the true ones back till next week) yet just couldn't get to grips with the 11 plus thing. She did a few practice papers and just couldn't grasp it. A tutor was out of the question as we simply didn't, and still don't, have the money to fund it.
Having looked around the alternative school and being impressed with it she has stated that she was more than happy to go there. So I didn't appeal - to be honest, I don't think I would have stood a chance anyway as she didn't just fail by one or two points!
So I would be interested to see what people think of this as I know for a fact that kids of a lesser ability have gotten places at the grammars. My dd said that there are a couple in her class who really struggle with their maths but are going to the grammars and she said to me 'surely they're not going to be able to cope?' Which got me thinking about the unfairness of the system.
Do the grammars expect you to be at least at a level 5 for stuff? If that's the case then what is the point of the 11 plus?
And no, I'm not bitter and twisted that my dd hasn't made it in. That's life. I wasn't prepared to shove practice papers at her day and night to ensure she got in. The poor things get little enough time to be kids as it is and I'm quite sure she'll do well at the non selective academy she is looking forward to starting in September.
Thoughts please?
Thanks.