Wow!!!! how this has progressed whilst we have been out for the day at the Splash Play Centre!!!
I can hear your frustration Pastsellby and have to admit I can empathise with you totally. My dd at an outstanding state school was badly let down too. That doesn't mean to say that all schools and maths teaching is bad, which some posters are feeling you are saying - I can maybe (because I am a parent not a teacher), separate that fact and see that you are not saying that.
Feenie, Mrz, Empirestate, you surely must see as a parent with no teaching experience (and in my case first experience of a child at school), it is very very worrying when you realise that your child is not learning what should be basics - I never thought - maybe naievely I should have to supplement teaching at home, I was expecting that was the schools job, although I know better now! Possibly because you are good teachers, at good schools, you are failing to understand how badly let down parents can be and how if you are not 'involved' in education, what a minefield it is.
Yes I questioned my school and was told that all was OK with reading - until Year 2, when I was told that my dd was struggling and put on a special reading scheme. She flew through this and is reading well above her age group now. I was told in Reception that dd was great at maths, was already thinking about numbers and adding up well (we had done some games at home), but at the end of Year 1, I felt things weren't right, especially when she came home and told me she was on the Red table, because the teacher had told her she 'was rubbish at money'. (this has stayed with her to this day).
In the end, we did what others have suggested - found another school - however, because of the area we are in and no places at our alternative state, that means paying for an education - which I have to say so far has been amazing (I had no idea there would be such a huge difference in both school and my dd).
I am fuming too, sick that we really wasted two years of our dd's schooling and angry that we have ended up paying for something that our dd should have a right too - a good education.
Yes we do Maths Factor, I looked at other free sites, thanks to these boards, but I have no idea how to teach or to structure the lessons and what I should be picking out to do. Mathletics looked very competitive to me and I felt the lessons dd will have with the former are more like teaching.
I don't know if it is good, bad, a waste of money and too would welcome any input from a professional about that.
My dd is having a little bit of extra help at her new school, but the fear, hate and lack of confidence remains, hence the MF to boost that - which it has done.
I echo PSBD's query about MF, I know it is lining Vordemans pockets, I can live with that if it helps dd, but as OP says, are these types of things any good?