Thank you for replying- its so hard to know if I'm making a mountain out of a molehill.
My biggest fear really is that ds's school is a v small rural primary. reception are on their own, but then Y1/Y2 are a mixed class. Children that aren't considered to be progressing well are held back a class- presumably on the basis that a class that incorporated y2's would be way beyond them. There are 2 children in ds's class that are Y1s the rest are YRs (out of 19) so it really is only a couple.
DS has always been painfully shy, but has settled really well into school. I would be devastated to think that his friends would all move on without him and he would have to start over.
In fairness I should really be speaking to his teacher- who I have to say is normally v approachable, experienced and professional.
I am a bit
though,becaus I went to see her about 6 weeks ago to check that his hearing probs weren't affecting him in whole class 'listening' type activities and she assured me that he was getting on fine, and even had him sound and blend some words for me to show this.
I am so determined that I don't want him held back that i am thinking of hiring a tutor - although I think he is v young for this- because I don't want him to be left behind his firends.
This of course my not be the case- I'm just a bit gutted that I've got this note on the last day of term, didn't spot it in his bag until I got home and now can't speak to his teacher til Jan.