OK, I really need some help.
Im moving to Edinburgh soon and I have a two year old and a 7 month old. We saw a flat we really liked, and so I thought I should dip a toe into the whole catchment area school thing. OMG!!! Now Im totally freaking out! There seems to be this whole bizare snobbery thing going on - one person told me I should move heaven and earth to get my kids into SOuth Morningside or sciennes (apparently the ONLY two half decent primaries in Edinburgh (?) One person told me that Stockbridge was great but that your "face had to fit". I looked at a flat near Preston street school and thought it looked really jolly from the outside - the kids all looked happy, and I was rather smitten with the diverse cultures of the kids I saw there. The same person though shook her head and sucked air in through her teeth like a dodgy plumber about to charge me a fortune. THis woman has HUGELY successful girls - they do the lot, ballet, sports, music, and the excel at EVERYTHING (I just hope one of the m gets knocked up at 16....urgh god I cant believe I said that ....not cooooool at all I take it all back...but this is the kind of madness Im descending into ARGH!). I have descended into an absolute spin of panic, self doubt, and utter madness. I just dont know what to do now. I dont have sciennes or morningside money, but Ive heard reports of families living in one bed flats to get their kids into the schools there. Are they really that good or is it because of the senior schools - oh god, ANOTHER thing to panic about.
Basically, I want my kids to have lots of friends, to NOT be bullied like I was, to come home happy and cheerful, and well adjusted to their day. Hubby and I are well educated, we're happy to pick up any academic slack, or work hard with them on things they struggle with, so we're not looking for a miracle school here. We want them happy first and foremost, and if they do well too then that's great, but secondary. PLEASE could a few of you out there let me know which primaries your kids attend, if they are good, and which senior schools are the ones to go for? I really need some support here as the only friend I really have to talk to about it is the above mentioned, and we seem to be falling out fast as each day passes.
Totally panicked of perthshire.