magdalene,
My son attended a play-based pre-school programme when he was 3 and 4 years old. He started school aged 5 and was taught according to the child-centred, constructivist philosophy if reading taught according to the 'Balanced/3 Searchlights' method which was basically Whole Language with a few letter names thrown in.
In Year 1, he was put into Reading Recovery (the remedial arm of Whole Language), not because his teachers thought he had a problem but because I said I thought he had a problem.
In Years 2 & 3, his teachers still didn't think he had a problem but told me that if I thought there was a problem then he might have a Learning Difficulty. I had him tested for every known LD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, auditory processing, ect, the list was endless and the testing cost a fortune.
The reports said that he was a bright kid but he had zero knowledge of sound/letter correspondences.
In Year 4, I enrolled him at a high fee private boy's school because they said they could remediate his learning.
Years 4 & 5 at the private school were exactly the same as the previous years, child-centred, constructivist, hands-on, discovery learning.
At the end of Year 5, after I stopped listening to the school tell me there was no problem, I found a retired teacher who taught him sound/letter correspondences and blending and segmenting to fluency levels. He had finished Year 5 spelling at Year 2 level (which his teacher did not think was a problem because he was a boy!) and after working wiht his tutor over the summer holidays, he started Year 6 spelling at Year 7 level.
He made 5 year levels progress in spelling in approx. 3 months which was more progress then he had made in the previous 5 years of full-time schooling.
I then changed him to another private school and in Year 8, when I asked why none of his teachers were teaching him how to write an essay (grammar, punctuation, syntax, structure ect), they shrugged and said there was no problem with his written work. On further questioning, one of his teachers admitted that she didn't know how to write an essay and her father did all her written work for her.
So I had to teach him how to write an essay at home.
He has just finished school, received his International Baccalaureate Diploma with a Distinction in History.
He started University today :o
(I'm in Australia, b-t-w)
He has achieved well in school because of the amount of intervention that I was able to provide outside of school. What was not an issue at 3, 4 or even 5, became on-going crisis management which could have been easily avoided if our schools and teachers understood the difference between evidence-based education and fad-du-jour education.
The issue here is that if the school doesn't get the teaching programme right for the first year of formal schooling, chances that they will get it right in subsequesnt years is unlikely. As each year goes by, while the parent is waiting for learning to 'click', the kid falls further and further behind the kids whose parents are teaching them at home.
I was able to (eventually) work out what was wrong with our education system and fill in the gaps for my son at home, but there are lots of kids who are just as able to learn as my son but whose parents are unable to do for their children what I was able to do for mine.
This is not parents being 'competative'. This is parents making sure their kids can read, write and do maths so they can finish school and get jobs.