Both CroyHigh and OP junior departments have been hit by the launch of Cumnor House Girls school, so it is less about general pressure of the times and more about Linda Jenkins specific strategy of targeting the parents of boys at Cumnor and inducing them to move their daughters too (sometimes with financial inducements!).
Croydon High and OP want all of their junior department to stay on to the senior school. Neither is trying to be a feeder school for the other, or for the grammars. However whilst Linda can clearly say that Cumnor will prepare their daughter for any or all of the 11+ options, CroyHigh and OP have had to react. I note that Old Palace's "half term workshop" fell outside of the state school halfterm, so that gives a very big clue as to the target population! And of course OP's junior school now finishes at year 5 - Year 6 is part of the senior school, with the clear message of "now you're already here, why leave".
It will be interesting to see how the junior school strategy works out. Clearly parents were reluctant to move their daughters once they are already at OP or CroyHigh (though many have), but Cumnor Girls is already at 2 form entry now from reception now, and able to grow. There hasn't been a single sex girls prep locally for quite some time, so it is interesting to see how the competition pans out.
For a 3-18 school to try and compete against the preps will be a difficult area. A weekly test in maths, English and VR (hopefully NVR as well given both Newstead Woods and Caterham test in this) is fine, but nowhere close to the preparation that Cumnor (boys or girls) or even the co-ed preps such at St Davids or Oakwood would be doing: as every child is doing 11+ somewhere the drilling for these exams is considerable (typically 3 papers per week in each subject), as well as thorough preparation in interview skills, with lots of help in terms of what items to take into the interviews etc. Which is great if your child is doing 11+ for a number of schools, but if you already know that they are going through to the senior school, then you actually don't need your child to have practised nvr exam technique for 3 hours a week. You would far rather that they were going deeper with their language skills say, ensuring that their typing and ICT skills were at the top end of the spectrum, and enjoying the benefits of an all round education - not one focussed on exams that for them, at this stage, are broadly irrelevant.
Cumnor House Boys has had a similar problem in the past as some boys stay on for Year 8 whilst others want to leave at Year 6. The only fair way to manage this is to place the boys in streams so that those who are staying on for Year 8 don't spend the first term of year 6 doing endless irrelevant papers - instead they 11+ stream do the exam prep, the 13+ start the common entrance syllabus with geography field trips and language trips etc. You will know that CroyHigh and OP are serious about preparing girls for grammar schools and other 11+ exams when they do something similar ie stream the girls into those preparing for grammars and those staying on. Look for the action not the spin. Be wary when the junior school girls are being taken into the senior school for special days, warier still when they're not getting the chance to meet the teachers at the grammar schools or the competing 11+ schools. Mrs Leonard has spent time at one of my dc's prep school, and spent time with the prep school parents (as has the head of Wallington Girls, etc). I suspect that she hasn't done the same with the girls at Old Palace junior, and similarly whilst the girls at CroyHigh will have met staff from other GDST schools, they won't have staff from Newstead or Old Palace or Wallington High coming in, unlike the local preps.
Chauffermum, not sure that I want to give away too much on a public forum, but I have/have had children in a number of local private schools, have taught at some of them, and have professional links with some. I am in Croydon High School on a weekly basis. I am relieved that you are determined for your daughter to stay through to the senior school at Croydon High and I am very pleased that you, and most importantly your dd, are so happy there
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