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How tall is your 12/13yo?

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wingingit33 · 05/08/2022 07:02

My dd was 12 in May and has always been super tall. She won't let me measure her but she's taller than me now, so I'm guessing 5'6-5'7. She's defo taller than all her friends (and hates it). We know she's near enough stopped growing (needed spinal surgery so loads of X-rays).

How tall is your 12/13yo?

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Drywhitefruitycidergin · 07/08/2022 00:01

Dd1 is 11.5 and is just overtaking me at 5"5 with her new school shoes.
Just hitting puberty so expecting another 12-18 months of growth. Loves netball so hopefully she'll still be taller than her peers!

Sparklybutold · 07/08/2022 00:17

My son is 12 and 5 foot 7 inches

Sparklybutold · 07/08/2022 00:18

Oh and size 9 men's shoes

Diawemma · 07/08/2022 00:37

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Chocolatesandroses · 07/08/2022 00:45

My dd is 13 in November nearly 5ft4 and size 7 in shoes

Changingmynameyetagain · 07/08/2022 00:56

Ds1 is 13 and 5ft9 with size 9.5 feet. He’s grown 5 inches in the last year 🤯

In contrast DD had her spine fused when she was 14 and she’s 5ft4 and won’t grow anymore as a result. She gained 2 inches in height after her surgery though.

I’m 5ft4 and DH is 6ft1.

wingingit33 · 07/08/2022 06:17

@Changingmynameyetagain my daughter is just 12 days post spinal fusion!

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JasmineVioletRose · 07/08/2022 06:26

DS 12 is about 5.4 or 5.5 i think

MsTSwift · 07/08/2022 07:48

Gosh spinal fusion sounds serious hope all ok.

Our issue is the tall 13 year old looks like an 16 year old supermodel. Already issues of street harassment and grown men chatting her up with me standing right there 🤮.

Quornflakegirl · 07/08/2022 07:53

This makes for interesting reading. DD is 9 and 5 foot so I wonder how tall she’ll be. I’m 5’6 and DH is 6’4.

Yogagrandmum · 07/08/2022 07:54

I was 5 ft 8 at 13 and that was 45 years ago…

TheBikiniExpert · 07/08/2022 08:00

My Dd is 12 and is 175cm (5ft 9). She is taller than me and taller than her 18 year old brother. She is finding it difficult to find shoes too as she takes 8 1/2. I must admit I'm a bit worried as she really doesn't want to be much taller!

TheBikiniExpert · 07/08/2022 08:03

MsTSwift · 07/08/2022 07:48

Gosh spinal fusion sounds serious hope all ok.

Our issue is the tall 13 year old looks like an 16 year old supermodel. Already issues of street harassment and grown men chatting her up with me standing right there 🤮.

Yes, that's another problem - not helped by the fact that it's so hard to find clothes that are small enough at the waist but not super skinny.

Pyjamagame · 07/08/2022 08:04

just turned 12 dd 5.5

wingingit33 · 07/08/2022 14:18

@MsTSwift she had it due to a scoliosis curve she developed ironically though a big growth spurt! She was 5'4 pre op and hasn't been measured again yet as only 12 days ago but I think 5'6 now though been told that's it for height growth now. Her spine won't grow anymore, she potentially has a cm or two left in her (already giraffe) legs.

Just weighed her though, 5'6 and 6st 12lbs she's sooo skinny.

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robin5810 · 07/08/2022 14:38

5”2 or 3, size 7 feet

FunnysInLaJardin · 07/08/2022 14:39

My 12 yo DS2 is 5.5 and size 9 feet. He is bigger than all of his friends, but I have no doubt they will catch up! Neither DH or I are particularly tall at 5.6 and 5.11

Scabz · 07/08/2022 14:40

Girl, 13y 5m is 5 foot 10 - growth is slowing though, so I don't know whether she'll get to 6foot (she is hoping to so she can give her height as 5 foot 12 like I tend to do, to see if anyone noticed)

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 07/08/2022 14:41

I'm 6ft and DP is 6ft3. So we were expecting tall DC. My 10 year old is 5ft4 already

Changingmynameyetagain · 07/08/2022 14:43

MsTSwift · 07/08/2022 07:48

Gosh spinal fusion sounds serious hope all ok.

Our issue is the tall 13 year old looks like an 16 year old supermodel. Already issues of street harassment and grown men chatting her up with me standing right there 🤮.

My DD has scoliosis so that’s why she had a spinal fusion, she has an S shaped curve so is fused from the bottom of her neck to the top of her pelvis.

Changingmynameyetagain · 07/08/2022 14:45

wingingit33 · 07/08/2022 06:17

@Changingmynameyetagain my daughter is just 12 days post spinal fusion!

We are 18 months post fusion, I was awful at the time but DD is an absolute star and she just got on with it.
Hope the recovery is going well for your DD!

BigYellowElephant · 07/08/2022 18:29

Unfortunately you get that anyway, my 13yo is only 5 2 and barely wears makeup, casual clothes etc although she does have D cup boobs. Grown men are always shouting stuff at her, flirting with her etc, some men are just vile

BigYellowElephant · 07/08/2022 18:30

Sorry that was to @MsTSwift

goermum · 08/08/2022 09:03

Hi my dd is 12 and 5'6 as well and she has girl friends her height, so I think it is normal: The boys in comparison are often tiny though:

autumnboys · 08/08/2022 09:05

DS3 will be 13 in October and is taller than me, so about 5’6. His dad and both grandads are 6ft plus, so not unexpected.

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