@BlueistheNewme That sounds difficult for you to manage. I hope you can figure some meal ideas out. If you tell us what she likes maybe we can help?
Packed lunch wise we are ok assuming we can get bread. He's had a ham sandwich, dairylea cheese strip and grapes every day for past 6 years! I'm hoping if bread is short that he'll agree to a ham baguette, as he will eat them at home. So I don't think lunches will be a problem - hardest part is he eats no pasta, rice or noodles, and the only potatoes he'll eat are microwave fries and well done (burnt!) smilies.
Fruit is scaring me, as he eats grapes 2-3 times per day - which sounds like a lot, but the alternative is 6 sachets of movicol per day, and other than apples he eats no other fruit. Veg is sorted, as he eats nothing but sweetcorn, but loves it so much he eats it every single day, so I have an 8 week supply of sweetcorn.
I try to pad out his fruit and veg by giving him tomato soup, spaghetti hoops or baked beans every day, he'll happily have soup as a starter, then just have a plate of chicken nuggets and sweetcorn for tea. Not ideal, but its calories.
@BlackeyedSusan Glad to hear you survived the pizza bases! How did you find them? I've bought mixes to make our own, but I'm wondering if ready made bases would be better, as DS is more likely to eat it if they are smooth and even looking.
Totally agree about the Jamie thing. You have to feed your kids what they will eat. Before DS was diagnosed, he was under consultant for failure to thrive, and they used to give us these ridiculous diets that he would eat none of. The first time I saw ASD paed, he said just feed him whatever he'll eat.
DS has a choice of 3 cereal for breakfast, we rotate a box at a time, so this week its frosties, next week it will be coco pops. On school days he has a ham sandwich for lunch, weekends he has homemade pancakes or soup. Tea is chicken nuggets, turkey dinos or skinless sausages. And we just rotate over and over. It amazes me that he doesn't seem to get bored! He'll occasionally eat pizza if its super crispy, but he's not that keen, and we usually have to resort to bribery to get him to eat it. But if there were nothing else available, I think he'd cope with it.