I have a 6mo ds. When he was 4 mo I fell pregnant and instantly knew I couldn't do it all again so soon so me and my partner decided to get an abortion. 2 months later I fell pregnant again 🙄I have no idea how as I've been religious with the pill. Anyway I actually felt happy this time. I felt ds had grown up lots in the last 2 months and I'd really got a hang of things. Dp has just got a promotion so we think we'd be able to afford it (just) and he was over the moon. He would have kept the first one if I wanted to.
But now the sickness has started, I knew it would be bad because it was with ds but now I have him to look after and I just can't cope. I can barely carry him without wanting to collapse, I just have no energy whatsoever, can't eat anything and I'm being a shit mum and putting him in front of hey duggee all the time because I can't cope. We are moving in 2 weeks as well so I need to be fit and well for that as we have no help, just us two to move everything . Dp is helping as much as he can whilst working.
So we've decided to terminate even though neither of really want to but I just can't deal with this.
Is it bad to terminate a pregnancy because of the sickness and has anyone else done it?😔