I'm feeling so alone, my partner has said he will support me no matter what I choose but he's really not showing much input at all (we don't live together).
My initial thoughts were panic and honestly thinking I can not support a baby. I already have a 5 year old and money is tight.
I've been in a fair bit of pain (legs, groin and back) and my partner has really not helped to take a bit of weight off. I have an appointment on the second of Jan to have an abortion but I've been having second thoughts, I let my partner know about the appointment and then my second thoughts and all he said was 'maybe you should cancel your appointment so you have longer to think.'
Am I being unreasonable to expect him to have helped out a bit more and even said something a little more.
He didn't offer to take time off work to come to my appointment or have my son etc... Untill I had a go about it.
Yet he's still uncertain if he will have the time off, yet when it comes to his son (from previous relationship) he will always take the time off. I'm just so worried that if we were to have a baby anytime soon his son will always come before this child. If he can't support me now how will he ever be able to?