am i wrong not to tell dp ?

[chdmum2491]

that i want an abortion ?!

thank you slightly, i have an appoinment booked their next one was 2 weeks away so ive got time to think x

How are you feeling chdmum ?

fine apart from tired and a bit pukey ! thanks for asking

Are you any closer to a decision?

i still want to go through with it but it kills me knowing he would love to keep it id do anything for him but this, i dont think i can what if i resent him and baby should things not work out ? i know ill hate myself but i feel its the right thing to do

Well at least he is supporting you whatever you do. It's so hard I know but you must make the decision for yourself and no-one else. If you know that you don't want another baby and you're only doing it for him then it could lead to resentment. Or you could end up loving the new baby completely and utterly. Only you can decide and it's good that he isn't pressurising you.

thanks for asking after me