I would like to say that I do not and never did imply that risking having a stillborn child was better than having induction and possible assisted birth.
My issue is with misunderstood statistics being used to scare women.
"Yes the risk of still birth is still small postdates but I didn't want end up being the 1 in 4 or 1 in 8 and end up unable to forgive myself."
What I was trying to say that the 'risk' is vastly overstated. You are NOT 'risking being the 1in4 or 1in8.' You may potentially be one of the 4 in 3000 (if the 1958 statistics are correct).
Many MANY more babies and mothers than 4 in 3000 are harmed by the induction and what follows. So you are much MORE likely to be one of them.
I believe we need to be informed of the TRUE risk in order to make an informed decision - of being post dates AND of induction/Caesarean/assisted delivery.
Increased monitoring and intervention in labour has not significantly reduced maternal or peri/neonatal mortality (antenatal care has contributed along with better food, health and education). Continuous monitoring in labour has been shown NOT to improve outcomes. Only 8% (of or 30% national rate) of Caesareans improve outcomes. Only 10% of our 20% of inductions are deemed necessary by the WHO.
The reason this is important to me is because it is about the bigger picture - not whether one person had a good/bad/necessary induction - but what the policies are that are governing our births.
Statistics that are used to scare people who don't understand them to me is very wrong, and until we get more people able to understand that the vast majority of them would be safer NOT being induced and that you CAN still have your home birth if that is what you want - however 'overdue' you are (it is ALWAYS your choice) then NOTHING will ever change for the better for us and our babies.
Hobgoblin - I wish you the best for your baby and birth