I had a missed miscarriage in Sept and have been awaiting IVF due to gynae problems for some time however I have just found out I am Pregnant[grin[
I went for my first midwife Appointment on Friday to arrange an early scan as instructed by my GP, when I got there I had seen this midwife in Sept so felt quite comfortable. there was also a nurse in the room with us. I sat down and she barely scanned my notes and said 'oh I'm not going to bother filling in any of the maternity notes as there is no point the scan may have a negative outcome' (even if I m/c I will need notes) I was completely gobsmacked I didn't expect a round of applause but FGS the insensitive cow. I was not in a mood to be messed with and said I don't think you should be speaking to me like that how dare you presume this baby is going to die as well. I expect some support from someone in your position I am aware of the risks but am trying to keep positive so don't you dare refer to my pregancy without further facts.
The poor nurse looked horrified as I asked the midwife when I could I expect my scan and she said oh I don't know why not wait till 12 weeks. I stood up told her my Consultant at the hospital had told me to get and early scan, my GP wanted it as well and if she couldn't be bothered I would see someone else.
I thought midwifes were generally nice to you!!!!
She was very lucky in my hormaonal state i didn't swing for her what a complete cow
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Midwife should be slapped and nearly was!
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dyzzidi · 10/05/2005 14:16
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