I know the official line is 'no alcohol' but is there a 'safe' limit?

[mosschops30]

I dont drink really when not pg, only when we go out which may be once or twice a month.

I have just been through the worst 4 weeks of my life and I am amazed that I have managed to not turn to fags, which would have been usual for me.
I gave up smoking the moment I found out I was pg, and havent drunk anything at all either.

But at funeral on friday I had one (small) glass of rose, and today I had 2 (small) glasses of wine at a friends house.
Is there a limit which is safe? We are on holiday next week and I would like the odd glass or a shandy or two.

Im not used to this, when pg with dd and ds there was no real limit set and I drunk guiness like it was going out of fashion!

Any advice would be great thanks

RE AFS. I have a social worker friend who used to be in charge of placing AFS babies for adoption. She says that these babies are the hardest to place because their issues present so many difficulties. Obviously it is the extreme end of the spectrum, but very sad to deal with.