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please help, i'm 20 weeks and think i'm losing baby

85 replies

memoo · 11/05/2009 16:50

Have been getting tightenings since friday, just a few at first

saw midwife this morning who said if they become regular i need to phone labour ward

have been having them every few minutes for last few hours. phoned labour ward who said to come in and they will have a look but there isn't much they can do at 20 weeks

I'm waiting for dp to get back, am shaking and terrified

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Becky150409 · 11/05/2009 18:00

Hi memoo,

thinking of you fingers crossed and wishing you lots of luck

Wonderwitch · 11/05/2009 18:26

Sending you loads of Love, best wishes and hope everything will be fine.

Huge hugs xxXxx

Picante · 11/05/2009 18:47

Best of luck memoo. I'm sure it's just braxton hicks.

TequilaMockinBird · 11/05/2009 18:49

Everything crossed for you memoo, sending positive vibes xxx

princessmel · 11/05/2009 18:49

good luck at the hospital memoo.

MrsHappy · 11/05/2009 18:53

Memoo - some women do just get braxton hicks from quite early on. I am 16 weeks and have been having little runs of them for a while. That could well be what this is, so please don't panic.

ProstetnicVogonJeltz · 11/05/2009 18:53

hope everything is well and fine.

Ohwhatacrapmasfear · 11/05/2009 18:59

Wishing you well Memoo, good luck at the hospital.

SabsBigPants · 11/05/2009 20:41

just wanted to add that i'm also thinking of you....

MerlinsBeard · 11/05/2009 20:51

hope everything is ok x

gussymooloo · 11/05/2009 20:56

hope alls wellxx

littleboyblue · 11/05/2009 21:00

Like everyone else says, hope it's BH or UTI. I had them all through my 2nd pregnancy.
have my fingers crossed and hope everything is ok. xxx

FairMidden · 11/05/2009 21:04

Sending good vibes x

Ewe · 11/05/2009 21:08

You poor thing, hoping it's nothing and crossing my fingers and toes for you.

HeinzSight · 11/05/2009 22:04

Hope all's OK, also sending positive vibes

StealthPolarBear · 11/05/2009 22:10

was hoping you'd be back by now- wil check again in the morning x

Cazzaben · 11/05/2009 22:23

Was also checking you were ok... Hopefully see you back tomorrow xx

Wonderwitch · 11/05/2009 22:55

I also have been checking, got everything crossed here, loads of love being sent ur way

xxXxx

mrsdisorganised · 11/05/2009 22:58

take care and thinking of you.x

diedandgonetodevon · 11/05/2009 23:02

Thinking of you and wishing you luck. Fingers crossed it's nothing to worry about x

pooka · 11/05/2009 23:05

Oh memoo.

I so hope all is well. I was on the braxton hicks thread saying sure was ok, have had braxton hicks for ages this preg and so on.

Keeping fingers crossed for you.

Hangingbellyofbabylon · 12/05/2009 08:32

Thinking of you this morning Memoo. I hope you've had some good news and reassurance by now. I know it's a terrifying time for you. xx

memoo · 12/05/2009 08:33

Hi everyone, thanks for all the lovely messages.

Didn't get home til very late last night so this is the first time i've had to come on computer

Everything is ok. When we got to hospital had to go straight to labour ward.

I have got a UTI!

They put me on the monitor which was registering the tightenings quite frequently so they kept me there for hours to monitor things. Fortunately my cervix was completely closed and tightening eventually stopped.

They were happy that nothing serious was happening but my blood pressure was really high so they still wouldn't let us leave.

It finally came down to 136/83 so they let us home with the condition I go back on Thursday to have BP checked.

It really was the worse night of my life! If I had lost this baby I swear they'd have to bury me with it because I can't deal with losing another one.

Thanks for all the positive vibes, means a lot xx

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Tillyscoutsmum · 12/05/2009 08:36

memoo So glad everything is ok. Take it easy x

Dalrymps · 12/05/2009 08:37

So glad everything is ok memoo, must have been scary...