Owlingate, wish I had read your post before I went, as I would have been ready for a fight just in case!
Thanks all for kind words.
I just got back, I was there from 10am - 5.30pm. Delivery suite said I wasn't for them and sent me off somewhere else (oncology??) where I was given a check, speculum and swab, and no fluid was present, however cervix very red and sore.
Because cervix so sore, sent off for a scan which revealed baby is fine, waters are fine, and cervix, whilst sore, is intact. Yay!
Back up to oncology where I had more tests, Dr's, Midwives, registrars etc and twas there that they found the ligaments in my pelvis have given up - NOT SPD, the bit at the front was fine, but the ligaments that run down the side and front are a bit buggered.
As a result, everything is not getting the support it should, including bladder (so yes the leak is urine), and putting pressure on bumhole, cervix etc.
So the good news is, waters are intact!
Bad news is, I have to rest up, not lift things, not walk far, wear incontinence pads and it's only going to get worse the more pregnant I get.
I have been referred to a physio to help me manage and help prevent it getting worse.
So an odd result but very glad it wasn't the worse of the scenarios!
I have to go back in 2 weeks for swab results and another speculum to check cervix.
Musicmaiden - I am with Queen Charlotte.
From what I have experienced it's a real battle to get seen and you are passed from pillar to post, but once you penetrate fort knox into the inner sanctum, they are actually quite nice