Hello everyone,
I am new to this thread. Thank you all for you messages, they have been reassuring. I am now in the same boat as you all, all markers being normal bar the DV.
I had my 12 week scan at the Chelsea & Westminster(C&W) on Tuesday. According to them, they could only do the Nuchal Test (NT) without the blood test because I had a failed twin pregnancy at week 6/7. This failed twin pregnancy they were did not detect when I went into A&E as I was bleeding in week 6. They scanned me and did a horrible internal examination and found nothing wrong. I then went privately (The Portman Consulting Rooms) and there, a consultant Obstetrician discovered the empty leaking sack, below the healthy sack which had a baby.
So, with the NT alone, my risk was 1:2645, which is very good. Nonetheless, because I do not trust the sonographer at the C&W (who did not see that I had lost a baby in the first instance - she was in a hurry to see other patients, had a look around, found a baby, all is good, you can go now!) I decided to go to FMC by referal from my lovely consultant at the Portman.
So, after a 4 hour wait for my scan, my risk for Down's Syndrome is 1:9245 which is very good. I am not worried about Down's Syndrome anymore. However, being told that the Ductus Venosus is in reverse flow and that it could mean a heart defect but that I shouldn't worry, was rather disconcerting! How can a heart defect be ok and nothing to worry about? I insisted for a further explanation when Prof Nicolaides made his whirlwind visit and all he said was: If you are rational rather than emotional parents I would get out of here, your baby is fine (or something in that vein). So, I was left with what the Bulgarian sonographer (who was very nice and chatty) had said, that it was nothing to worry about and that I should SIMPLY make sure that at week 20 I ask for the heart to be properly examined... How was that meant to give me closure???
Like most of you, I got home and searched the net. Most of it was Chinese to me and for medical eyes only. My DH, who has now nicknamed me WW (Worrying Wife!), fell asleep on the sofa while I was searching the net and panicking!
This morning I called ARC and they told me that the FMC are the best around and that if they thought it was very serious, they would have said something and suggested an eco-cardiogram. She then said she was not a doctor and it would be best I call the FMC back to speak with a doctor there.
So here I am now, having called the FMC and waiting for them to call me back. When that will be is another question.
My DH is still calling me WW and thinks that I am being over the top and that our baby will be perfect.
I will update you when I hear back.
In the meatime, I wish you all well and lets try and stop worrying, its not good for the baby after all!