Hello MrsMattie
I'm having my c section on 12th March at UCL. Glad to hear yours went well and you are happy. I've just been getting together my hospital bag and seem to have alot of stuff! How long did you stay? Do you have any tips on what to take?
I'm also worried about what kind of support there will be for lifting the baby to change and feed during the night. How late did they let your partner stay?
Any advice will be greatly appreciated. You may be able to sense the panic in my writing!
Hi Miarey
I had my baby at 1pm. They came round and told DH he needed to get ready to go at about 9pm, but he stayed until nearly 11pm and by that time I was exhausted and just wanted to sleep.
I found the support excellent. They have buzzers by the bed and every time I buzzed someone came promptly and all staff were happy to help - day and night. They also have remote control thingies beside the bed so you can control the lighting in your bay and adjust the bed up/down/reclining etc.
The staff helped me to get up and about and walk, and to shower/change when I needed it. Everyone was really nice. There was one senior midwife who was very bossy, but even she was nice - she practically forced me to get up the day after the op (I didn't want to!) but glad she did, as I recovered quickly after that.
I also liked the way they allow you to self medicate - so you are offered paracetomol and codeine regularly after the op, but can also request stronger doses of codeine and/or morphine of you want it, depending on how you feel.
My only gripe is that they kicked me out after 48 hours! I thought I'd be in at least 3 days and was really enjoying being looked after and existing in a little bubble with just me and my baby, but as soon as you are up and about, they deem you well enough to go home and discharge you.
Good luck - and if you have a lovely French midwife called Laurence, say hello to her from me! She was in theatre calming my nerves and was the most lovely, soothing presence.
xxx