Hi ladies, I have been reading through all of your posts which took a while ))) but its great to hear all diffirent point of views.
I am just over 30 weeks now and I am with UCL, I actually had a antenatal class today and got a breast feeding class tomorrow.
I am so scared of having a virginal birth, its going to be my first child and after hearing about third class degree tiers and seeing the size of the forsips I was not impressed at all!!!
However with the new guidelines now, we no longer need a 'medical reason' per say to have a elective c section!
I have booked a consultant appointment for monday, however I am still uncertain what kind of birth I would like to have!
My fears and worried:
Virginal birth: no control, luck of professional midwifes and under stuffed as usual
Having a terrible rip, and also the pain, not too posh to push at all, but my baby is already over 2.5kg and im just 30 weeks now! My partner was born 5200kg so huge baby and i wasn't a small baby myself, so the tearing is gonna happen pretty much!
C section:
I am unsure of the side affects, i mean i have done my research and i understand that its a serious surgery however apart from the scar and not being too active for few weeks after birth what else do I need to consider????
I have read that possibly I wont have milk after c section and ideally I would like to breast feed!
Apparently the child could also be weaker!
Please let me know what you think and of your experiences.
To answer the questions that have been asked previously, the hospital itself is lovely, however every midwife that I have had so far have been a little rude, certainly under qualified and generally not what I hoped for.
Each appointment time that I have had, would be pretty fast, without even allowing you to ask any questions and the wait time sometimes is even ver an hour.
However this hospital seem to have some great reviews and compared to what my friends have experianced in other hospital this one is great! ;))