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Your experience of a sweep

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namechange7891011 · 09/03/2026 18:46

Just looking for some experiences of women who have had sweeps. I have one booked for the end of the week and feel a bit nervous.

Can i ask:

  1. how much did it hurt?
  2. did they find your cervix ok? (My cervix is normally very high up and I feel a bit worried they won’t even get to it!)
  3. did it work?
  4. anything else that might help a first time mum to feel prepared for it

TIA

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BeeCucumber · 09/03/2026 23:58

I had one without informed consent and afterwards the midwife threw a sanitary towel at me and told me I might need it. It was painful, violating and did not start labour.

catsmother · 10/03/2026 00:21

I had a sweep at 40 weeks during a so-called 'routine' antenatal hospital visit.

The nurse introduced a consultant who told me he was 'just going to take a look at me'. Which was exactly what had happened in recent prior visits so I had no reason to think it was anything other than a check to see if I'd dilated at all and maybe a conversation following that regarding next steps

I thought it was rather odd that the nurse/chaperone put her arm around my shoulders once I was lying down ...

And then I experienced an excruciating, nauseating pain .... which I didn't understand, but - absolutely stupidly - didn't protest at either because I was a 25 year old 1st time mum with little self confidence and frankly, I was in utter shock. It felt as if it went on forever and was appalling. I remember writhing and crying and the nurse gripping my shoulder really tightly.

This consultant then announced 'right, that should get you going' and swept (no pun intended) out without any further ado.

Then I was physically sick ... perhaps from the pain but probably also from the assault.

I had NOT discussed any sort of induction regardless of being 40 weeks. I had NOT consented to having a sweep - the word itself had not been mentioned, the process had not been explained. It wasn't until I got home and looked at my pregnancy books (in the days before internet) that I even realised what had happened to me.

And of course I felt violated. Like a piece of meat. As if I had no say so in regards to my own body or perhaps Mr Oh So Fucking Important Consultant deemed I was too unintelligent to have a discussion about medical procedures. Obviously the nurse knew what he was going to do, hence the rather unusual embrace she'd placed me in. It just felt so horrific.

This was more than 35 years ago so I really hope women aren't treated like this now. Of course I considered raising a serious complaint afterwards but with a newborn it was one of those things which I kept putting off and I bitterly regret not taking it further and hauling his arrogant arse over the coals. Over the years I've pondered on many occasions whether it was worth complaining belatedly but given the time lapse I suspect the bastard has died in the meantime.

As it happened, this sweep had no effect whatsoever anyway. My son was eventually born a fortnight later at 42 weeks following a planned induction with oxytocin and, thankfully, the most wonderful midwife.

My experience however, of having a sweep without consent or any warning has had lasting effects. Even with kind female clinicians I still find smears, or internal ultrasound scans very difficult, and have had to have GA for a couple of 2ww hysteroscopies. FWIW, the team at Addenbrookes have been amazingly understanding in arranging this once I've explained my fears.

Apologies if this is too honest! I should imagine that with consent and a full understanding the pain of a sweep might be mitigated slightly though I see that some previous posters have unfortunately mentioned they found it a horrible experience.

catsmother · 10/03/2026 00:23

BeeCucumber · 09/03/2026 23:58

I had one without informed consent and afterwards the midwife threw a sanitary towel at me and told me I might need it. It was painful, violating and did not start labour.

I'm so sorry .... see my post beneath yours. I didn't even get the sanitary towel so had the added worry of bleeding too.

Makingsenseofitall · 10/03/2026 03:05

mixedcereal · 09/03/2026 19:04

I’ve had two sweeps with two babies

  1. first one was agony - I then went onto be induced and they said I wasn’t ready for a sweep. Second one I barely felt - my body was closer to being ready
  2. My cervix is high too. I had to rest my bum on my fists
  3. dint work with first, did work with second
  4. my advice would be to ask if your cervix is ready for a sweep, and don’t do it if not

This is good advice. Same experience here. First baby? How many weeks will you be?

Stickytoffeetartt · 10/03/2026 03:18

I have a tilted pelvis and an posterior cervix. I've had a few sweeps (4 dc) and have realised that they are most painful when they aren't going to work (cervix hasn't softened)

I always thought they were a waste of time until I had one with my last and it brought my labour on tenfold. However , I had been having regular contractions that stopped once I got to the hospital. The sweep put me into full labour. So they can work and not be too sore as long as your cervix is favourable! However , the sweep is nothing compared to labour ime (sorry!)

Stickytoffeetartt · 10/03/2026 03:29

Ps make sure you get gas & air if you go for the sweep (and if getting waters broken if you get induced too)

clementmarot · 10/03/2026 15:14

I had one with my second pregnancy -- I was in a wheelchair and I think my consultant just felt sorry for me and was keen to get it going if possible. It was unpleasant but not awful, but I liked and trusted her and seen her a lot so that made a big difference I think. My recollection is that I did have a few small contractions later that afternoon, but then it fizzled out and did not start labour. He came in the end a week or so later, 24 hours before he was due.

Manifoldoptions · 10/03/2026 19:52

First time - sweep - felt nothing at all - waters broke a few minutes later - full on labour ensued.
second time - no sweep- was induced- all very quick and quite hard work but nothing was as bad as doctor who came in to check my large perennial tear - no niceties, acknowledgment or hello - just shoved his finger up my arse with zero warning telling me to squeeze, before announcing I didn’t need to go to surgery for repair as midwife could do it. Turned on heel and left. Utterly mortifying. Didn’t notice when she started on the 20 stitches….
Two beautiful children - have long forgotten the bad bits. Good luck xxx

BeeGneiss · 11/03/2026 01:25

I had 3/4
Clearly they didn't work for me.
I didn't find them that painful.
I had them from 2/3 different people (things have blurred) and it does make a difference who does it.
The lady who broke my waters in the end, I could barely feel it. Where as the lady who attached a heart rate monitor to me sons head, that's the worst pain I've had.

Advice
Relax, take a pad, and hope for labour.

Judgejudysno1fan · 11/03/2026 02:04

LilaRose25 · 09/03/2026 18:59

  1. It was uncomfortable more than painful.
  2. Found easily and was told I was already 3-4cm dilated, could feel the waters bulging and the top of babies head.
  3. It caused a bit of bleeding but did start contractions off.
  4. Take a pad to wear after it has been done.

You are incredible and must have a very good high pain threshold. At 3/4cm most women are in labour ward and requesting pain relief. 4cm is Established labour!!!!!

DinoLil · 11/03/2026 03:20

I had one and, honestly, no pain or discomfort whatsoever. I had my waters broken as well. Nothing. And no, I had no pain relief.

hereismydog · 11/03/2026 21:28

Back to the thread with a more positive message than my first post on here!

My best friend had a sweep yesterday (39+5, second baby), had cramps within hours, went into labour this morning and gave birth this evening ☺️

Birdh0use · 11/03/2026 22:50

1st time - it was ouchy but for inky econds and didnt do anything
2nd time - ouchy for a few seconds, led on to gentle onset labour and water birth avoiding induction

Would recommend!!!!

Hohofortherobbers · 11/03/2026 22:59

Had 2 babies, both times had sweeps that worked, very uncomfortable rather than painful. Midwife didn't take any prisoners though, I asked her to really go for it, first one at home she got my plug out, labour started 11hrs later. Second one they found I was already 3-4 cm dilated, wasn't contracting or in pain though, I went to hospital for it, they were a little more gentle as said I was on my way naturally. I was contracting less than 6 hrs later.

TheBirdintheCave · 11/03/2026 23:12
  1. It was uncomfortable but not painful.
  2. Yep but I was 40 weeks and my daughter’s head was right down by then.
  3. It did! I went into labour a few hours later and baby was born 48 hours after that. I had already had some bleeding the previous day though so pretty sure labour would have started soon with or without the sweep anyway.
namechange7891011 · 13/03/2026 12:21

Just want to say thanks to everyone for your information and stories. I feel they have really helped me to feel prepared.

I have it tomorrow and will let u all know how it goes.

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ay30916 · 13/03/2026 13:21

Good luck op!

namechange7891011 · 13/03/2026 18:04

thatsthatsaidthemayor · 09/03/2026 21:21

I need to read the detail. I had the chimneys done this week and nearly commented. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Thanks for this. It really made me laugh!

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namechange7891011 · 13/03/2026 18:04

@ay30916 thank you

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ChefsKisser · 13/03/2026 18:06

Good luck tomorrow OP! I had one it was absolutely fine didn’t hurt at all just uncomfortable as you expect someone rummaging up there! Baby born next day. 100% worth it!

Superscientist · 14/03/2026 08:41

I had one at 36+6 as I needed inducing but no beds available until the next day so they said they would try to see if it would help bring labour along.

No more uncomfortable than any of the other times some has had their hand up there. I got a tip once when having a smear to put my fists under the small of my back to tilt my pelvis. I have done it ever since with any exam and find it really helps with discomfort.

I had been having contractions since 32 weeks and the sweep did help them become more regular and I was 1 cm when they examined me the next day to induce me. If my health had been better I possibly would have declined the induction and left my body to do it's thing but we needed baby out whilst I was still well enough to push him out. I had my waters broken and same it was a tad uncomfortable but not painful.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 14/03/2026 10:32

Uncomfortable but it brought on labour! Wishing you the very best for your birth and new baby.

WonderingWanda · 14/03/2026 10:36

It was much more uncomfortable than I was expecting but not as bad as actual labour. Think strong period type cramps. It did work though. I think it was the moment when I suddenly realised that the baby had to come out and it wasn't going to be a breeze.

namechange7891011 · 14/03/2026 15:30

Hi all, just an update. Went to have my sweep today but she couldn’t fully do it as I am only 0.5cm dilated. Instead she stimulated the cervix with her fingers and said she’s confident it will have dilated more within 48 hours so I have another sweep booked for Monday. Since I’ve been home I’ve had some slight bleeding which they said was normal and lost a bit of my mucus plug.

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DrCoconut · 14/03/2026 16:04

user593 · 09/03/2026 19:08

I was given one without my consent. It was uncomfortable but OK, but I was very angry they hadn’t asked for my consent. I wouldn’t have wanted one if I had been asked, but actually it wasn’t that bad.

Same here but it was very painful. I was in labour at the time too. Apparently they were just trying to speed things up 😫. With my next baby I specifically said I did not consent to a sweep. At ante natal though I have no experience of it.

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