For context, I’m in a lesbian relationship. We have a 3yo and just got successful with baby #2. Found out yesterday but partner has been really off since, not being excited and said “I’m happy for you”. When I challenged this and asked what’s wrong she said she’s fine, however speaking today she said she won’t be telling her best friend yet as her bff “doesn’t think she’s ready”. Am I being unreasonable being upset by her lack of excitement? I went through a lot to get this baby, and she was seemingly along for the ride, occasionally saying she was worried about jumping from 1 to 2 but we had many a deep conversation where I reassured her and she seemed fine after that. I just don’t understand :(