HI there
I had pre-eclampsia with ds 2.5 years ago and was indiced at 37 weeks. It started at around 33 weeks so I was quite lucky. I was told be a variety of medical people that it tended to occur in first pregnancies and notin subsequent pregnancies.
However, I have a brilliant community midwife - the same one this time round as last time - who referred me to a specialist at 16 weeks pregnant to be monitored closely for my bp. Since 20 weeks pregnant, I was signed off work as my bp shot up - no other symptoms - but it was high enough to be a cause for concern. I stayed signed off until I started my maternity at 31 weeks (am almost 35 weeks now).
My bp goes up and down and I have weekly monitoring sessions, bp profiles at the hospital and regular bloods taken. I had a scare about 3 weeks ago when my ankles ballooned, my bp soared and I had protein in my urine. Then it just went down.
I see my midwife every week now for monitoring and know that if I have any symptoms at all I must contact the hospital. I am surprised that I have managed to get this far. I am half expecting to be induced in the next few weeks though as my bp is gradually climbing. Last week, it was just within the 'normal' range. Back at the midwife tomorrow.
For me, there have been 2 keys things - 1) my briliant midwife who had personal knowledge of my last pregnancy who put all the wheels in motion from day one for close monitoring to take place. Also the back up of the consultant and EPU who have given me the confidence to ask for advice at any time at all (the last time was a few weekends ago amid the gales on a friday night!!)
2) my doctor who saw the state my bp was in and didn't hesitate to sign me on the sick. I ended up being in the sick from 20 weeks until my maternity started. If this hadn't happened, goodness knows what the situation would be today.
SO!!
I am trying not to worry about it. But I think you must insist on close monitoring - your experience of pre-eclampsia sounds far more serious than mine. Ask for a referral to the consultant at the hospital. Ask the midwfie if she is planning more regular appointments for you than normal. and if you have any symptoms at all (you will be an expert on these no doubt!!), don't hesitate to contact the hospital.