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Should elective C sections for no reason be allowed?

169 replies

Dori92 · 20/11/2025 20:43

Just curious on people’s opinions on this.

Would like to point out I’m not opting for an elective section.

Thanks 💞

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Coffeeandbooks88 · 20/11/2025 22:58

@gentlemum Such a natural thing that so many women died from and still do.

Babybear260 · 20/11/2025 23:00

Dori92 · 20/11/2025 20:43

Just curious on people’s opinions on this.

Would like to point out I’m not opting for an elective section.

Thanks 💞

Yes, they should and thankfully are. But there’s always a ‘reason’ even if it’s not strictly medical. Women should be allowed to make the most of modern medicine should they choose!

Mere1 · 20/11/2025 23:01

Dori92 · 20/11/2025 20:43

Just curious on people’s opinions on this.

Would like to point out I’m not opting for an elective section.

Thanks 💞

Yes. Unequivocally.

Thedogscollar · 20/11/2025 23:12

MidnightPatrol · 20/11/2025 22:47

Induction rates have gone up because hospitals are risk averse, and so they are offering them earlier and earlier. It is cheaper than offering a c-section or additional daily monitoring.

And - it’s more convenient for the hospitals to be able to plan when patients will come in vs the unpredictability of labour.

Look at the US where everything is hyper medicalised - they all seem to be induced by 39 weeks.

Nearly everyone I know who has been induced has just been for being slightly overdue. In my second pregnancy they were agitating me to book one in from 38 weeks - no known health problems.

IMO for some trusts induction is just the next action if you hit 40 weeks without giving birth - despite this being most women…!

In our unit we have inductions every day this is not for convenience so we can plan the care as opposed to spontaneous labouring women.

We often have no beds available for the inductions who are then either called in later in the day or the next day when a bed becomes available.

Induction rates have gone up because of research and the range of medical conditions I listed earlier has increased hugely over the years.

It has nothing to do with being risk averse but you are completely entitled to your opinion.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 20/11/2025 23:18

Why are you asking us? We can only decide such things for ourselves. If someone decides to treat her own body differently from the way I treat mine, it is NONE OF MY BUSINESS.

Wednesdaysotherchild · 20/11/2025 23:20

Yes

hth

Shoemadlady · 20/11/2025 23:23

Why on earth anyone would choose a c section instead of a natural birth is beyond me. It’s horrific and major surgery, the recovery is long and arduous and even getting out of bed or lifting you baby is hard. Unless you and / or your baby is at risk I honestly don’t know why anyone would choose this as the “easy” option. It really isn’t.

Thedogscollar · 20/11/2025 23:31

Shoemadlady · 20/11/2025 23:23

Why on earth anyone would choose a c section instead of a natural birth is beyond me. It’s horrific and major surgery, the recovery is long and arduous and even getting out of bed or lifting you baby is hard. Unless you and / or your baby is at risk I honestly don’t know why anyone would choose this as the “easy” option. It really isn’t.

It really is so much more complex than choosing the "easy" option.
Can I ask what is horrific about a planned CS? I have attended more than I care to remember and they were mostly calm and joyous occasions.

manineed · 20/11/2025 23:48

Shoemadlady · 20/11/2025 23:23

Why on earth anyone would choose a c section instead of a natural birth is beyond me. It’s horrific and major surgery, the recovery is long and arduous and even getting out of bed or lifting you baby is hard. Unless you and / or your baby is at risk I honestly don’t know why anyone would choose this as the “easy” option. It really isn’t.

I Wouldnt chose one either, but that shouldn’t effect what other women chose to do with their bodies. Doesn’t affect me.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 20/11/2025 23:50

Shoemadlady · 20/11/2025 23:23

Why on earth anyone would choose a c section instead of a natural birth is beyond me. It’s horrific and major surgery, the recovery is long and arduous and even getting out of bed or lifting you baby is hard. Unless you and / or your baby is at risk I honestly don’t know why anyone would choose this as the “easy” option. It really isn’t.

I think it can be the easy option, but it's a case of you won't know if it's the easy option until you've had it done.

For comparison, my friend had her baby by ELCS 3 weeks before me, she couldn't move, couldn't lift her baby, couldn't get up and down stairs, couldn't get off the sofa without help. She was still limping when she came to the hospital to meet my baby.

I had no pain during or after surgery, I was happily up and walking within 4 hours, even tidying up round my bed on the ward, and could easily get up and down and lift my baby. I lived in a town house with 3 flights of stairs, and could carry myself and my baby plus any extras we needed for the night like pumps, nappies, wipes etc. all with ease. I had a little bit of trepidation at first, but I was well supported and quickly learnt that I just had to overcome that little bit of fear. I had no postnatal cramping.

My complications came 4 weeks later, and were completely unforseeable and unpreventable, but the C section itself was fantastic. It was my favourite part of the entire pregnancy, I was ecstatic, the theatre staff were like a comedy troupe and they just kept my spirits so high. Couldn't feel the spinal, had a brilliant and intuitive anaesthetist, some fab HCAs on the wards, and was discharged less than 24 hours afterwards back to my own sofa and bed, with my own kettle and tea cup.

The only thing I struggled with was pushing things, like the pushchair or trolleys, but it wasn't excruciating. It was like I'd just done an intense abdominal workout at the gym. My muscles felt a bit tired, which they probably were given they'd just been sliced through.

NET145 · 20/11/2025 23:51

Choose! We’re not in the Victorian era!

ohwoaw · 20/11/2025 23:52

Babyboomtastic · 20/11/2025 22:44

Absolutely things can go wrong with a section, but thankfully there's a doctor present and your numb at the time, and in the right place to fix you up! Compared with getting a third or fourth degree tear* with no pain relief, after labouring an agony for hours, I know which I choose (and chose!)

*Then there's people that say they didn't feel the tear at the time, like it makes it any better that you were in so much agony overall that you didn't notice your most sensitive bits ripping apart!! 😱 A friend of mine ripped her clit in two! Hell no.

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Your poor friend. That sounds horrific. I’m definitely glad I had an elective second time around. My fanny and connecting bits are still intact.

CityKity · 21/11/2025 00:00

Of course women should have the option. I feel like the term ‘without reason’ is misleading. Unfortunately there is no way to predict how a natural labour may unfold so whilst a woman may have no medical reason going into birth, she may come out the other side with a slew of complications.
I had an uncomplicated vaginal birth, one friend has been left with irreparable pelvic floor damage, and others have had elective C sections. Birth is a gamble and I can totally see the rational behind having some control of the situation rather than leaving it to fate.

Theroadt · 21/11/2025 00:07

Dori92 · 20/11/2025 21:21

Wow, some nasty people on here. Everyone’s entitled to an opinion, some replies are disgusting.

So does a section for no reason take priority over a section for someone whose baby is footling breech? Who can’t be turned using ECV?

This is a situation that is currently happening, so all the people that have commented nasty things, think again.

A non-emergency elective C section does NOT take priority over an emergency. I know this first-hand because I had a crashed c-section first time, and I later got to know one of the women whose c-section was delayed 5 hours as a result, equally my second delivery was c section but delayed because wmergencies went first. You’re talking nonsense and your tone is a bit goady imho

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 21/11/2025 00:41

dammit88 · 20/11/2025 20:46

There's always a reason.

This.

l3tsdanc3 · 21/11/2025 00:52

DH is a medic. I find it very telling that not a single one of his close friends who are doctors had a natural birth - they all elected for a section. I think that says a lot.

Justacigarette · 21/11/2025 00:55

dammit88 · 20/11/2025 20:46

There's always a reason.

This

JLou08 · 21/11/2025 06:47

DonicaLewinsky · 20/11/2025 22:53

If your vaginal birth was like that, it was one of the lower resource ones. Attempted VB doesn't always work out that way. EMCS and instrumental birth are both resource heavy, we have high rates of each, they're both consequences of attempting VB and they're harder to plan for due to unpredictability.

Comparing a straightforward VB to a section is the wrong metric.

I know it doesn't always work that way, that's exactly why I'd be worried about there not being the resources available if a woman did need emergency intervention.

OlivePeer · 21/11/2025 08:00

LBFseBrom · 20/11/2025 22:45

I've never understood why someone would actually want to go through a Caesarian if there is no medical need. It's not an easy option, my neighbour had two emergency C-sections and would rather not, however she had no choice. Why choose to have your abdomen and uterus cut open and then stitched up?

Because being "cut open and then stitched up" in a controlled way under anaesthetic is clearly much better than being torn/cut open and then stitched up in much worse places while awake.

DonicaLewinsky · 21/11/2025 08:00

JLou08 · 21/11/2025 06:47

I know it doesn't always work that way, that's exactly why I'd be worried about there not being the resources available if a woman did need emergency intervention.

But you haven't factored in that allowing women access to ELCS means some births will end up using fewer resources than they would've if they had attempted vaginal birth. And the hospitals will be able to schedule ELCS at the times most conducive to best resource usage, in a way that's obviously not possible for forceps or EMCS.

If you want to make an argument that women shouldn't be able to have MRCS because of resource access, these are factors that have to be considered.

WiltedLettuce · 21/11/2025 08:24

JLou08 · 20/11/2025 22:41

The state that the NHS is in, I'd worry that allowing this as an option to all women could lead to there being a lack or resources available for when an emergency C-Section is needed. I've had a C-Section and there was a surgeon, anesthetist and 3 midwives/nurses. There will also be additional prep for the theatre. I also had a vaginal delivery which was just midwives popping in one at a time until the last 30 mins when 2 where there for delivery.
Realistically, I can't see there being enough surgeons and anesthetists to meet the demand and that could lead to delay for those most in need, so no, I don't think it should be an option on the NHS.

The "low resource", apparently "low risk" vaginal births are often the ones where things go disastrously wrong due to insufficient staffing and monitoring. Worth bearing that in mind.

If you say to a woman, "no you can't have a c-section because it's too resource-intensive", what you're quite often saying to her given the present state of maternity care is "no, we want to be able to stick you in a side room, largely ignore you and give you bugger all care until your baby arrives and just hope for the best".

crappycrapcrap · 21/11/2025 08:47

I would prefer it not to be an option for first births - there’s so much fear surrounding birth and it would be far better for the money to be spent on supporting women in labour effectively, ensuring there’s adequate staff and resources to make women feel safe.

Blusteryskies · 21/11/2025 09:21

I think they should be, especially because midwives aren't honest about the risks of vaginal delivery. If I'd been told about the risks of vaginal delivery, I would have most definitely opted for a c section. I've been left with permanent issues which weren't even on my radar due to the lack of information provided.

Babyboomtastic · 21/11/2025 09:46

crappycrapcrap · 21/11/2025 08:47

I would prefer it not to be an option for first births - there’s so much fear surrounding birth and it would be far better for the money to be spent on supporting women in labour effectively, ensuring there’s adequate staff and resources to make women feel safe.

How can staff and resources make vaginal birth feel safe, when it's fundamentally not safe?

Historically (and still in many parts of the world) it's the most dangerous thing a woman will ever do!

Some of us are not prepared to take that gamble. The only way I felt sufficiently safe was with sections. I'm grateful that I was able to choose sections or I wouldn't have had my lovely children.