Help please

[Chloe1245678]

hi everyone I’m looking for some advice please as I’m freaking out
I had a bad feeling the other night that I couldn’t seem to shake , I had realised that me and my partner had split up once and I had made a big mistake and gone and slept with my ex boyfriend for one night it was around 1 am on the 16th July it was totally stupid and I regretted it ever since
I am currently 16 weeks and 6 days pregnant

It has just hit me like a tonne of bricks, I had done a conception calculation online and it said that I conceived on the 15th July based on my due date I’m pretty sure I was with my partner on this day but I’m not certain I’m very worried about this and I’m absolutely terrified that it isn’t my partners baby now just because of this one mistake I made i am now really unsure and worried I’m wondering if there’s anything you can do to help me figure out a more accurate estimate or something I don’t really understand all the information, on my Flo app it says day 1 of pregnancy is the 2nd July … I have looked online at DNA tests but they cost £800 + I just can’t afford it I’m absolutely beside myself here I do have dates of when I slept with my partner as I use the Flo app and I logged the unprotected sex and it was quite often I am 95% sure that my baby is his but I’m just very worried about that one mistake I made .
i think I was ovulating around the 8th July -14th July which is when I slept with my partner,

the other guy I slept with was 2 days before my period was due

any help will be appreciated thank you so much

This is such a strange attitude to have when people have tried to help you?

I’d personally rather have a rubbish sex life than be playing baby daddy roulette…

It’s great you’ve ordered a DNA test, you need to know who the father is for the baby’s sake.
I hope you get the outcome you want. It sounds like a bit if a chaotic situation to bring a baby into.

This doesn't sound like a great environment to be bringing a child into! Were you trying to get pregnant?

You have an utterly bizarre attitude having come here looking for "help"...

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I slept with my partner when I thought I was ovulating and then again a week later when I shouldn't have been ovulating. I'm pregnant and from my dates I conceived when I WASNT ovulating so you never know unfortunately

Talking like this is crazy when you're going to be a mother 😬

Honey! I'm so sorry for all the stress you shouldn't be worrying about this as your pregnant it should be a time for serenity and lovingness! You should talk to the ex and say it may be a possibility that the child is his but not completely sure. Additionally, if you really think it could be a possibility that it is your ex bfs, you should get a DNA test!

If you need anyone to talk to I'm always here! Good luck mumma! 🤗😘

21 is young, yes, and we've all made mistakes and done things we might not be proud of. Nobody is perfect.

People on here have tried to help you though and give honest advice. Swearing and resorting to personal attacks and immature retorts because it's not what you want to hear is ridiculous.

There is an innocent baby stuck in the middle of this.

Good luck to you.