Help please

[Chloe1245678]

hi everyone I’m looking for some advice please as I’m freaking out
I had a bad feeling the other night that I couldn’t seem to shake , I had realised that me and my partner had split up once and I had made a big mistake and gone and slept with my ex boyfriend for one night it was around 1 am on the 16th July it was totally stupid and I regretted it ever since
I am currently 16 weeks and 6 days pregnant

It has just hit me like a tonne of bricks, I had done a conception calculation online and it said that I conceived on the 15th July based on my due date I’m pretty sure I was with my partner on this day but I’m not certain I’m very worried about this and I’m absolutely terrified that it isn’t my partners baby now just because of this one mistake I made i am now really unsure and worried I’m wondering if there’s anything you can do to help me figure out a more accurate estimate or something I don’t really understand all the information, on my Flo app it says day 1 of pregnancy is the 2nd July … I have looked online at DNA tests but they cost £800 + I just can’t afford it I’m absolutely beside myself here I do have dates of when I slept with my partner as I use the Flo app and I logged the unprotected sex and it was quite often I am 95% sure that my baby is his but I’m just very worried about that one mistake I made .
i think I was ovulating around the 8th July -14th July which is when I slept with my partner,

the other guy I slept with was 2 days before my period was due

any help will be appreciated thank you so much

It doesn't matter who you slept with the most as it only takes one time.
With conception on or around 15th July, there are 2 possibilities

OP, were you physically tracking ovulation? If not and you are just going off a phone app then this is not accurate. You cannot assume parentage based on an app!

I know it seems like we're all being a bit blunt but I think you're in denial at the moment.

Why are you getting so fucking annoyed

Kindly OP you were ovulating around the 16th based on your due date.

There's absolutely no way for you to know except a DNA test. You had sex with 2 different people in a close timeframe. It's best to fess up now and be honest about it. Realistically it could be either man's baby.

Maybe because you came on here asking a question and don't want to hear the honest answers that everyone is giving you?
It doesn't make a difference to anyone on here if you ignore the facts and bury your head in the sand but it does make a difference to your unborn child and two men who all deserve to know 100% who the biological father is.

You'll need to do a dna test

Sorry its not what you wanted to hear OP but you need to get a DNA test and talk to your partner.

The very least you can do is tell your partner, it's not fair on him, or your unborn child if you keep a secret like this from him.
There is no way to know for sure apart from a DNA test, and it doesn't matter how many times you had sex with him it only takes one chance.
Be honest.

Why are you saying you are 16+6 though?
Normally due date is calculated from LMP? Did this come from an early scan (and what date was the scan done?)

Sorry OP but you just can't bring this baby into the world not sure who the father is, it's completely unfair to the baby and your partner, and the other man if it turns out to be his baby.
You just have to do a DNA test and there's no point arguing otherwise

Everything comes out in the end, so you may aswell just be honest now OP.

LMP is used as a guide only in the really stages of pregnancies so you can get your scans and appointments booked in. It's just based on average cycles and when ovulation occurs within the cycle so it's not accurate for a lot of women.

Your dating scan around 12 weeks is normally when you get your official due date and this is based on the actual measurements of your baby. I'm 18 weeks now and have consistently measured 10-12 days less than what I would be going by LMP.
This is because my cycle was longer than average and I ovulated late that month.

If OP is 16+6 then that is 14+6 days from predicted conception date (15th July)

I am getting one this week just ordered one online

I forgot to mention my partner is black and the other boy is white

Just ordered a dna test should get the results by next week

Have you told your partner or the other guy? They need to consent to the test.

Have you told your partner?

As if I’d order a fucking dna test without asking the man to take part what kind of dickhead do you think I am ?

Just paid £800 for a dna test and ur seriously asking me that

I mean one who sleeps with their partner and their ex within a couple of days, falls pregnant and still hasn't told their current partner at 17 weeks that the baby might not be his 😆
Then comes on here for advice then doesn't like hearing the truth ☺️

Hehe your not exactly perfect yourself love I’m only 21 can do what I like

You have a great sex life don’t you ? 🥱🥴

You’re going to be a mummy. This isn’t the right attitude to have towards anyone. People are trying to help.