Risk of Autism

[Pregnantagain40]

I really don't know what to do.

I'm about 5 weeks pregnant. Almost 41. Have 2 boys 15 and 13. Both neurodivergent. I am also neurodivergent. My youngest needs supervision, also has learning disability. I have to do most things for him.

The risk of having another child with autism is high. What if they are more severe? The impact this would have on my household. Also my partner is totally against this baby. Won't support me. I'm not sure I want an abortion but if I'm unsure of keeping the baby does that tell me I really don't want it?

One minute I want to keep the baby and next minute I am not sure. I am so stuck. I think the risk is worth it. But there is so much fear surrounding both decisions I can't commit to either of them!

Anyone been in same position? What did you do?

My youngest has been challenging @mitogoshi but definitely more of a blessing than a challenge. I will just have to see what the outcome will be and handle it from there

I lost the baby ladies. Wasn't meant to be
:( definitely no more babies now. That was my last chance i think xx

So so sorry @Pregnantagain40. Rest. Look after yourself x

@Pregnantagain40 so sorry to hear this. Feels even crueler just when you had got your head around it and made a plan. Look after yourself x