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Is recovery harder after second c-section?

34 replies

jingle443 · 07/10/2023 19:13

For those of you who have had two csections, did you find the recovery harder the second time around?

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riotlady · 07/10/2023 19:21

No my second one was miles easier, I was shocked! Much less pain, got back to normal much quicker. I was very active quite quickly by necessity as had a baby in the NICU so was walking back and forth from my ward so maybe that made the difference

MissCordeliaPreston · 07/10/2023 19:21

I personally found it easier because I knew what to expect and what (not[ to do.

morag1234 · 07/10/2023 19:23

I would say 2nd time around was harder to recover from.

I was walking the prom 4 days after my first C-section. I had minimum pain and it healed very quickly.

2nd C-section, I found it a lot more painful to stand/sit up. It hurt to roll over in bed & pick up baby to feed her etc. It wasn't end of the world pain, but definitely took longer to heal and longer before the pain stopped when I tried to stand up etc.

Having said that, I would take a C-section ANY day of the week instead of having to go through the pain of contractions, so it can't have been that bad!'

Eastmeetswest1 · 07/10/2023 19:38

Much easier as PP's have said. Body seemed to recover much, much quicker (perhaps as you have 1 already to chase after and therefore more active than after your first and body has been through it before?). No pain with starting the breast-feeding either unlike the first time round when it was excruciating which made a HUGE difference. I also think you know what to expect and are therefore more relaxed.

ThomasinaLivesHere · 07/10/2023 19:46

I’m surprised at the responses but hopefully. I’m also going for my second c-section in a few months and have been thinking it’s going to be worse. Mainly because I have a jumpy toddler who won’t understand he’s not to jump on me with my stitches.

jingle443 · 07/10/2023 19:48

I'm surprised by the responses also, but that gives me a lot of hope. Thank you.

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ShowOfHands · 07/10/2023 19:53

Loads easier (and first wasn't too bad). I was doing the school run on day 4, walking a couple of miles with dc in a sling. Didn't need painkillers even.

Upsadiddles · 07/10/2023 19:53

I think I recovered more quickly the second time, although there were some short periods around day 4-6 where the pain was worse than I remembered from the first time. My first was an EMCS at midnight after 2 days of labour so I was exhausted. My second was an ELCS in the afternoon. I’d slept properly and felt more human from the start which helped.

lorisparkle · 07/10/2023 19:54

I have had 3 c-sections and the second was by far the easiest to recover from. I think as pp have said it is the knowledge of what is going to happen and best way to manage it all. However with my third I did try to push myself too far too fast.

MilesAndMilesOfLights · 07/10/2023 19:55

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Scutterbug · 07/10/2023 19:56

Yep I found it easier too. I had 4 sections in the end, got easier each time!

FluffMagnet · 07/10/2023 20:00

Far easier for me, and needed far fewer pai killers. Tbh neither were particularly hard for me, but second one was a breeze.

thelonemommabear · 07/10/2023 20:04

My second was with twins and much easier than my first

35965a · 07/10/2023 20:09

Also found the second time easier. I knew exactly what to expect and was just mentally ready, my first was EMCS and second ELCS which were totally different.

Bobbi730 · 07/10/2023 20:09

First (emergency) was absolutely awful after long difficult labour etc. Second (elective) was a breeze in comparison. I was up and about the next morning and left that day. I was at a child's birthday party a few day's later. Good luck 😀

Lazyhazydaze · 07/10/2023 20:11

I’ve had four! First was the hardest and last the easiest!

Condo · 07/10/2023 20:12

My second was a walk in the park compared to the first as I hadn’t been in active labour for 24 hours beforehand. I loved my calm preplenned 2nd section.

Rockfordpeach · 07/10/2023 20:13

Mine was much easier, I genuinely barely noticed it. My second was prem though and in the NICU so obviously I was massively distracted. I also got fed up needing to have someone wheel me to the NICU to see DS so I walked really quickly and fairly often which I think helped

jingle443 · 07/10/2023 20:16

Woo. This has put my mind at ease. Thank you ladies :-)

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Frazzledandfried · 07/10/2023 20:21

Recovered well both times, but 2nd was definitely better. I was religious with my paracetamol and ibuprofen 2nd time round, and also started taking arnica the day I went in for my 2nd, rather than 4 days after with my first.
I'm just doing my independent prescribing module so I now understand exactly why it's so important to take regular pain relief and continue with it and it honestly makes a huge difference. Good luck!

TangoTarantella · 07/10/2023 20:21

Easier. Hardly a bother at all.

Babyboomtastic · 07/10/2023 20:28

At the time I thought my recovery was slower, but given I was out every day after coming home, went for a day trip on day 4, and had dinner guests over and day 5 where I ended up chasing my toddler round the garden, it was fine. Within 2 weeks I was on the slides at soft play.

It WAS a harder section though. I felt a little bruised and for about 3 days I on/off had a slightly burning feeling across my scar, though not really painful. They had a bit more yanking to get baby out (first baby shot out with my waters 😂), hence feeling bruised I guess, but it was very mild discomfort really, no more. I did have bad constipation though.

motleymop · 07/10/2023 20:29

I found them both fine pain-wise, but I did have much heavier and more prolonged bleeding after the second one.

jingle443 · 07/10/2023 20:30

Oh yes the constipation was the worse part of my first c section! I'm going to take something with me next time.

Also - do they go through the same scar?

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Eastmeetswest1 · 07/10/2023 20:40

Yes same scar line with all 4 of mine but my friend has 2 scar lines. She would recommend asking if they can go through the same scar line when you are
in theatre - if you remember!! I never did.

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