MMC how long does it take for your body to realise

[Unicorn2023]

I have my next appointment on Wednesday but last two scans I’m measuring 6 weeks one without fetal pole and one with so because there is change they won’t do anything but nurse said it’s not good. Should be ten week 4 days. How long will it take for my body to realise? Pregnancy tests are so light and it’s not hook effect I tried watering it down.
Please anyone?

@DaisyMay25 i know they said because of staff shortages they couldn’t do MVA for another two weeks and I just couldn’t wait that long and I really want this one tested because I can’t go through this again 💔 I’m off work just now and trying to rest but it’s so hard because all you do is think what did I do wrong 😭❤️ xxx

@Unicorn2023 thinking of you xx

@Littlegoth Thank you so much ❤️ counting the seconds until tomorrow hoping the first pill works ok 🤞🏻 I just want some closure 😢 your support means a lot especially after all you have been through xx

@Unicorn2023 hope everything went smoothly yesterday. We’re all here for you xx

@Littlegoth It was actually not to bad took the first tablet and came home had slight cramps but nothing else 😢 back tomorrow morning at 8am for second tablet and will be kept in until it passes I’m just scared it doesn’t pass or this pain is going to be horrendous. I get really painful periods anyway and I am normally fine but my heads running wild just now 💔🤗 xx

@Unicorn2023 hope it goes ok for you! Glad the first wasn't too painful but hopefully the next lot help it move along abit.
It did hurt for me, I had natural miscarriage supported with the tablets the next day at home to get rid of remaining tissue. But through even the worst of the pain I managed to grin and bear it and put my son to bed like nothing was happening so it isn't the worst pain in the world. I found it more emotionally painful. I know I didn't have to put my son to bed as my partner was home but I usually do and didnt want things to feel off or weird to him.

@Ttcmumma thank you for the reassurance ♥️ I’m sure I will be fine I’m just being silly sometimes the more you think about it the worse it seems x

Tablets didn’t work when I went back to the hospital on Monday and because I wanted it tested they kept me in still nothing happened after taking another 10 tablets so 11 including the one on Friday had to have surgery to remove it all on Wednesday morning 😢💔 really wanted it over and done with but now it is I feel worse because I feel empty 😫 I’m sore and have nothing to show for it 😭

I'm sorry it was so long for you and you still had to have the surgery 😔. How you feel is exactly how I felt, I wanted it over with and then couldn't deal with the fact I was empty. Even until now it bothers me, I gained two stone after my miscarriage and with nothing to show for it. Life is not fair but I promise you learn to live with the pain, allow yourself to grieve and recover and feel whatever you need to feel. Mine was January and I wouldn't say I'm 100% myself again but I'm closer than I thought I'd be able to get xx

@Ttcmumma it strange because your mind tricks you into thinking if it’s over with I will feel better and can try to move on but you don’t every other emotion appears as soon as its done the anger, the feeling alone even though I have great support, the why me again and the that everyone around you is announcing they are pregnant and you are sitting in the house heartbroken 💔 I just wish for once it would go right 😢 it really is unfair xx