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How to know who the father of my child is

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456amyf · 24/10/2022 11:28

i just found I am pregnant and have irregular periods so it’s difficult to know when I ovulate. I slept with 2 people in a 9 day period, I know most would be able to know as a fertile window is 7 days but because I have irregular periods I’m not sure.

my period started 04/10/22 and I slept with #guy1 condom split so was a accident 7/10/22 whilst on my period, I finished my period two days later 09/10/22. I slept with #guy2 15/10/22 no protection but used pull out method. However we was unsure if he pulled out in time so I got the morning after pill 16/10/22.

my app does a average on my period based on my irregular cycles and said that I ovulated 15/10/22. I was nervous because I was told if I have already ovulated the morning after pill don’t work.
Anyway I tested for pregnancy 22/10/22- negative 23/10/22- negative 23/10/22- faintest line.
My app says that I wasn’t ovulating or in a ovulation cycle when I slept with #guy1 as I was on day 4 my menstrual cycle but I’m still nervous.

however I was thinking if I actually am pregnant with #guy1 then wouldn’t I have shown positive earlier as technically my period would be starting 25/10/22 and would mean I have a 21 day cycle. Symptoms for pregnancy started 21/10/22 and with #guy2 and my period
prediction is 29/10/22 so getting a faint positive today on a FRER would mean I am pregnant with #guy2 surely?

could you give me some advice please!!! What do you think?
hopefully no judgement

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RandomMusings7 · 25/10/2022 22:08

CherryIce · 25/10/2022 22:04

Sorry if that happened to you, but not everyone is abandoned because they've had a baby..maybe in your circs, but not everyone!

Exactly why I said "many men", not "all men" :)

Ginger1982 · 25/10/2022 22:16

Which man would you rather it was?

456amyf · 26/10/2022 08:47

SansaStarkWolf · 25/10/2022 21:45

Are you sure you weren’t pregnant before all of this? Perhaps your ‘period’ bleed was implantation bleed???

I mention this as you say you had a positive pregnancy test 19 days after the first day of your period - I have regular periods every 4 weeks literally can set your watch to them and I have only ever had 1 pregnancy who was a very very faint positive on the day I was due - I’ve been pregnant 6 times. You only ovulate 14 days after the first day of your period and 19 days start to finish of your period plus producing a positive test feels like a short time period to me - that’s like 5 maybe 6 days for the sperm to reach the egg, fertilise and produce enough hormones to produce a positive test

Hi, definitely was not because I tested sat/sun and was negative but thanks tho

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456amyf · 26/10/2022 08:48

rmummyofone · 25/10/2022 21:24

@theremustonlybeone

ever heard of something called FEELINGS?

She's literally just found out she's pregnant and you feel comfortable to be a keyboard warrior saying things like that? Imagine someone said that to your face? That's so insensitive.

OP if you read this please ignore her, I'm proud of you snd so are so many on this thread. We're all with you, and hope you have a wonderful healthy pregnancy and baby.

Thanks! And yeah I'm not going to entertain comments as such. Just don't understand why people can't be kind on a site that is used for people to uplift and support each other!

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