Trolleydolly, we will just have to agree to disagree because I do not believe that medical professionals are always the most educated, knowledgeable and up-to-date on all the current research and studies. Some people go to medical school and then stop learning, IYKWIM. They feel that since they are now a doctor (or nurse, or tech, or midwife) that they don't have to keep reading, researching, studying and reaching out to people. If you think that not having a medical degree makes someone 'uninformed', even when they have the same access to these studies and research as doctors do, thanks to the internet, then you are underestimating many, many people. Again, it doesn't mean I mistrust the entire medical profession -- no such thing. But I refuse to lay down and submit to things because the administration department of some hospital decided to make a procedure 'routine' even when the benefits have not been proven to outweigh the risks or where no indication of a problem is present. It's not about wanting to be natural and it's not about wanting to be defiant, it's about making decisions for myself and being aware of other professional studies and opinions besides "this is what my doctor says is best" if that advice doesn't jive with what my body and intuition is telling me.
Cote -- I did ask for opinions on scans and I have taken them on board, as I have stated. I am looking for a wide variety of thoughts on the topic but some people seemed to just be regurgitating what their doctors told them because they trust them to be completely knowledgeable and up-to-date on everything involving their care, without ever having done any research themselves. A few people indicated that they thought I would be foolish to risky my baby's health or my chance at having a homebirth merely because I wanted some questions answered with facts, not anecdotes about the girl they knew whose baby died because she didn't have a scan and so-and-so's doctor told her they were best.
I get really tired of the defensiveness displayed by so many people (both regular folks and medical ones) when someone simply asks some questions and explores how a procedure such as sonograms came to be routine and WHY. Do the benefits outweigh the possible risks? What about the fact that for every scan that is correct, 2.5 give false positives and scare women witless (some even into aborting) when in fact there was nothing wrong with the baby? It's a very inexact science, scanning.
Anyway, I didn't mean to step on any toes or anger anyone. I'm new here and was looking for like-minded people who might be asking these same questions so we could gather information together. I am not judging anyone's choice to have a scan for their own babies, merely my own.