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Pregnant in the heat, anyone else wilting?

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ShirleyPhallus · 16/07/2022 18:36

Sorry for yet another post about the weather but is anyone else really struggling in this heat?

im 38 weeks now and feeling a bit miserable with it, I am doing all the usual stuff to keep cool but am just so hot, tired, feel like I’m moaning all the time and find the smallest things like walking up the stairs exhausting

Anyone else with me?

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TeddyTonks · 18/07/2022 10:42

TakeMeToProvence · 18/07/2022 10:13

Hope everyone's doing ok?!
36 weeks here and just had my wfh request for the next two days denied. "We have fans in the office" so apparently that's fine

Ugh that's rubbish. When do you go on mat leave? Do you have a long journey /is the office significantly less comfortable than home? I'd be tempted to phone in sick tbh if they can't make a reasonable adjustment for you.

Moonladyx · 18/07/2022 10:52

Really feel for you heavily pregnant ladies in this heat! I am only 15 weeks and feeling it, I WFH but my house is so hot I feel so unwell and tempted to call in sick 🤒

ShirleyPhallus · 18/07/2022 12:03

TakeMeToProvence · 18/07/2022 10:13

Hope everyone's doing ok?!
36 weeks here and just had my wfh request for the next two days denied. "We have fans in the office" so apparently that's fine

This is really shit, can you speak to HR? They have to make allowances for you being pregnant don’t they - occupational health type assessment stuff?

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Bordesleyhills · 18/07/2022 12:05

25 and ok so far

SunshineIndoors123 · 18/07/2022 12:49

@TakeMeToProvence ugh, when do you go on mat leave? I hope you don't have too much longer to wait. The heat is hideous at the moment.

I'm 39+4 and quite cool now I'm at home with the blinds shut and the fan on. Had an appointment with the consultant in antenatal clinic this morning though and genuinely thought I'd pass out or throw up with how hot it was in the hospital. And that was at 9am, I shudder to think how hot it is now!

Moneymonkey · 18/07/2022 13:05

henni85 · 18/07/2022 10:41

I am only 11 weeks, but a combination of medication and Crohn’s disease on top of pregnancy is absolutely destroying me in this heat! It’s feel for all the heavily pregnant ladies at the moment

I'm exactly like @henni85. 11.5 weeks, with Crohn's disease and a baggy 3 year old with a cold. It's terrible!!
I'm currently lying down on the floor in the toddler's room with all the curtains shut praying for rain 😂

TeddyTonks · 18/07/2022 13:55

SunshineIndoors123 · 18/07/2022 12:49

@TakeMeToProvence ugh, when do you go on mat leave? I hope you don't have too much longer to wait. The heat is hideous at the moment.

I'm 39+4 and quite cool now I'm at home with the blinds shut and the fan on. Had an appointment with the consultant in antenatal clinic this morning though and genuinely thought I'd pass out or throw up with how hot it was in the hospital. And that was at 9am, I shudder to think how hot it is now!

I am currently sat waiting at ANC and can confirm it's hotter than the sun 🥵

Zee33 · 18/07/2022 14:06

33.5 weeks and have officially turned into a liquid 😩. Love to stay mobile and go for walks/clean the house but it's too much! Feel sorry for the dog, he's gotta put up with my whinging 🤣. Hope you're all coping as well as you can x

CurbsideProphet · 18/07/2022 14:11

27 weeks here and luckily WFH. I made sure I didn't have much to do today as I'm not in a the right head space for sounding coherent on the phone etc. I must have seen every hour last night, waking up and thinking "god it's so warm". Thinking of those you further along than me and feeling even more hot and uncomfortable 😬

Isonthecase · 18/07/2022 14:26

@SunshineIndoors123 @TeddyTonks don't, I have the consultant tomorrow morning and it's always hot and stuffy anyway! Might actually melt.

CoolBananas21 · 18/07/2022 19:19

I am 26 weeks and really struggling. Hormones are making me cry because of the heat! I have a cold wet towel on my body which seems to help me cool down

ShirleyPhallus · 18/07/2022 19:53

Hope everyone is doing ok! One day (almost) down and one to go

Something I’ve found massively helpful is putting a bowl of ice in front of a fan, it really does feel a lot cooler than just having the fan

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CurbsideProphet · 19/07/2022 04:33

@CoolBananas21 I cried in bed last night because I felt too hot! It's just after 4.30am and I'm back downstairs in front of the fan eating a cereal bar. Felt so hot I thought I might be sick and I can't go back to the bad old days of sickness!

ToCaden · 19/07/2022 08:30

Last night was not fun. Did manage some sleep with fan constantly on and pointed right at me, but tired this morning and have to work.

One more week after this one then I get to go on maternity leave!

I'm really looking forward to wednesday. Estimated temps have hovered around 24/25 which is miles better than today and yesterday.

Regenbogen22 · 19/07/2022 09:21

Only 1 more day (of only 2😜) for most of you, then back to typical British summer weather! Stay cool!

Seraphim87 · 19/07/2022 09:28

I’m only 20 weeks but the heat has seem to of given sciatica from hell. I was already getting the odd twinge but nothing like this. This the heat is the culprit so staying home after my leg gave way twice causing me to fall over. Which in tune gave my OH a wobble. Roll on Wednesday!

LolaJ87 · 19/07/2022 09:46

I'm only 20 weeks but struggling as well. I don't know how you third trimester ladies are surviving!
Is anyone else living off ice-cream and picky bits? My diet is ATROCIOUS.

ToCaden · 19/07/2022 10:32

Today is dragging. Finding it harder than yesterday to concentrate on work. I think because of less sleep last night.

Also the weather forcast had the max temperature as 30, and it's already 31. I feel betrayed.

Stranger1things · 19/07/2022 10:51

I'm only 11 weeks so nothing in comparison to what it must be like at 39 weeks but I've suffered from nausea and sickness really bad. This heat is making it even worse. I want to sleep through it and wake up tomorrow but can't sleep because I'm too hot! I have no appetite but know I have to eat, I can't just live off ice pops....

Zee33 · 19/07/2022 10:52

LolaJ87 · 19/07/2022 09:46

I'm only 20 weeks but struggling as well. I don't know how you third trimester ladies are surviving!
Is anyone else living off ice-cream and picky bits? My diet is ATROCIOUS.

Honestly it's difficult to have a balanced diet in this weather....currently living off of toast, fruit and ice lollies at 33 weeks 😂 something is better than nothing, right?!

ShirleyPhallus · 19/07/2022 10:58

Zee33 · 19/07/2022 10:52

Honestly it's difficult to have a balanced diet in this weather....currently living off of toast, fruit and ice lollies at 33 weeks 😂 something is better than nothing, right?!

Gosh definitely, exactly the same for me here too!

i feel pretty dreadful this morning, really sick and faint and I have shooting pains down my bum. Really hoping this isn’t the start of labour!!

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Zee33 · 19/07/2022 11:15

ShirleyPhallus · 19/07/2022 10:58

Gosh definitely, exactly the same for me here too!

i feel pretty dreadful this morning, really sick and faint and I have shooting pains down my bum. Really hoping this isn’t the start of labour!!

Hopefully it's just the weather, how many weeks are you? Do you have someone with you?

I had something similar yesterday, was freaking out a bit walking around Asda...turns out it was wind 🤭🙈 pregnancy is very glamorous isn't it?!

Hope you're okay x

ShirleyPhallus · 19/07/2022 12:46

Zee33 · 19/07/2022 11:15

Hopefully it's just the weather, how many weeks are you? Do you have someone with you?

I had something similar yesterday, was freaking out a bit walking around Asda...turns out it was wind 🤭🙈 pregnancy is very glamorous isn't it?!

Hope you're okay x

Thank you Flowers I’m 38+4 so anything could happen! My first was 2 weeks overdue so I’m not expecting it just yet, but nursery has closed today so I have a toddler with me

luckily husband is WTF so has moved some meetings to help out

🤣honestly maybe it is wind! There’s a lot going on inside!

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Samthenanny · 19/07/2022 18:49

I’m 29 weeks and I’ve struggled! Luckily im
off work otherwise I don’t think I’d of gone in but I just can’t get cool. I’ve cried a few times because I’m so hot and uncomfortable so I really feel for you ladies who are much further along.
sleeping hasn’t been enjoyable but the babies muslins wet draped over me have been quite nice

Squiff70 · 19/07/2022 21:08

Anybody else literally counting down the hours to cooler weather tomorrow? We should get some reprieve from about 5am onwards.