I'm 34 weeks pregnant and being pushed towards various interventions incl possibly a c-section which I don't think are supported by evidence in my case. It's out of an abundence of caution (based on poor studies) and just doesn't suit me personally - how I cope with things, my preferences, etc.
It feels like 'the voice of the mother' just doesn't matter. That was a theme at this Trust, but it's a theme in a lot of other places too though perhaps in a different way.
I think another theme is the 'informed choice' thing. Unless you push for info, do your own research, and ask lots of questions, there basically isn't any informed choice. So many places don't seem to volunteer any info at all, or only very selective info that suits their agenda. PPs have mentioned being told all the risks of c-sections but none of the risks of vaginal birth. At my hospital it is the opposite. And good luck breaking risk vs benefit of pretty much any kind of management of labour.
Part of it is because data is so poor and some studies contradict each other. I'm fed up reading NICE reviews that say national guidelines for various things are based on 'low quality' research. I hope this can be improved to give a better evidence base for everyone.
But mostly I think it needs to be about informing women PROPERLY, then supporting their choice. I don't want any kind of birthing ideology imposed on anyone. Give me your professional advice and the benefit of your experience, but then accept that the decision belongs to me.
IMO it's not about c-section vs vaginal, it's about having a system that supports women to the birth that is safe for them and baby, respectful of their individual needs and choices, and which bloody well listens to them.