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[HammerToFall]

I'm 43 my husband is 50. He has anti sperm antibodies. We tried ivf and icsi a few years ago but no luck. We adopted two kids and we are a happy family of four. The kids are in their teens.

Haven't had a period since november presumed menopause. Just to tile it out ive done a pregnancy test. You can guess the rest.

How many of these are
False positives with the menopause etc

Oh this is so lovely to see! Huge congratulations:)

Oh Hammer, he’s amazing. Thankyou for updating us.

Congratulations again OP. What a lovely heartwarming outcome.

How are your older 2 doing? Is eldest still in the navy?

Wonderful update. He's a dote @HammerToFall 🥰

Aww he's so cute ☺️

Oh wow I’ve just seen this thread for the first time. What an amazing gift! Massive congratulations, your son is beautiful.

He is absolutely beautiful. Xx

Ah - he's gorgeous! Bet his big siblings are doting too.......! XX

How gorgeous

Unfortunately not he got declared medically unfit when his records were requested as he had a mild bleeding disorder von willebrands that excludes him every, he was devastated however he's looking at other options and at the moment is working for dad labouring (DH is an electrical engineer) he would have liked to have been taken on as an apprentice but unfortunately didn't her the grades.

Things with my daughter where very difficult. She has an ambivilant attachment disorder and last year was very difficult. She is in. PRU due to her inability to cope in mainstream. She was going missing all the time, saying out god knows where was violent and verbally to me constantly. While I was pregnant she ended up in respite foster care as she wouldn't come home because she knew we were taking her phone (inappropriate interactions in social media with men trying to groom her). We saw hee regularly and she saw baby the day he was born. She's changed, she loves Sam so much and wants to be a good role model to him. We rarely have kick offs at home anymore and if things are getting difficult we have access to 75 days of respite with the carer she was with last year which can be used in an emergency who she has a very good relationship with.

Everyone who said he was meant to be here at this time was right. I think he was sent he save her. Her behaviour was so dangerous that she could have ended up in a really situation.

So things are good I have my daughter back our relationship have improved drastically as she can see I am a good mum to him and this has helped her get over her fear of attachment as she believes all adults leave eventually. Plus I have a little helper when I need to get stuff done!

Amazing update…congratulations x

Well ain’t he adorable.

How bloody fabulous to read such lovely news. ❤️

Wow! Congratulations! Lovely story - what a journey.

What a gorgeous boy! So wonderful to see this update. Happy to hear how your daughter is doing so well and I hope your elder son gets settled into his dad’s profession or something else that he likes.

Well done, Op! Enjoy your baby bundle and your whole family. How have you and your dh adapted to having a little babe in the house?

Congratulations, he is gorgeous.

I missed this first time around, what a wonderful story! Congratulations on that gorgeous addition to your family.

Beautiful update! Thanks for letting us know OP & well done with your DD, what a tough time you've all had. Wonderful that baby has been the opportunity for a new relationship together ❤️

Oh dear. Isn't he just perfect. Welling up here. So happy for you.
Congratulations!

And now I have something in my eye all over again!

What a lovely update OP - it sounds like your gorgeous wee boy proved to be the best glue a family could wish for.

What a wonderful heart warming story! May you continue to enjoy the positive aspects of parenting.

Just catching up with your latest update and photo. What a cutie! I'm so pleased things are well for you all at the moment x

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Such a lovely update and photo. He's a little smasher!

Such a heartwarming story ❤️ All the very best to you and your lovely family