Who's the father?

[pleasehelp321]

I can't believe I'm even writing this. I've seen threads like this in the past on here and always thought how stupid can that person be to put themselves in this kind of situation, but here we are.

I'm newly divorced and have been going out dating, having loads of fun with my newfound freedom.

My cycles are really regular. Every 4 weeks with ovulation in the middle (I know this as I have conceived 2 DC previously).

Anyway:

I had unprotected sex on CD5 with Date A, he withdrew, but who really knows how much got inside.

I had unprotected sex on CD9 with Date B, came inside. Stupid, I know. In my defence I thought I was so far out of my ovulation window it didn't matter.

Unprotected sex on CD12 with Date A. Did not finish, but what about pre-cum?

Who is the father? Date A or Date B?

I know I sound like a 17 year old imbecile and this who thing is so embarrassing, but I'm a 35 year old professional with a solid career and two DC.

@pleasehelp321 I actually am not sure the answer to your question but just want to make sure ur ok. Feel like people are so judgemental on others, u asked a question, not to be judged by everyone. Yes everyone will have an opinion but there's no reason to voice it x

No judgement here either! My money is on B.

Are you okay though, OP? ❤️

Based on your dates I’d definitely say B. But if you go ahead with the pregnancy you would need a paternity test to confirm.

Do you want to keep it?

It's not judgy to be concerned that someone is having unprotected one night stands. Nothing wrong with casual sex at all, but condoms are absolutely essential.

None of that helps now though. Maybe it's a bit more likely to be B but obviously no guarantees.

Best of luck with whatever you decide to do

If you don't know how the bloody hell will we?

Grow up

No judgement here OP.

Don't dwell on the negative comments. I would think if date B was on CD 13 it would be his.

Hope you're ok

@burnthur5t

If you don't know how the bloody hell will we?

Grow up

Does it give you the warm and fuzzies being nasty to someone already going through it?

Hope your little outburst made you feel good about yourself.

@burnthur5t you are very nasty. If you don't have anything nice or relevant to say then just don't say anything at all.

@heelforheelandtoefortoe your also just pure nasty. Just because she has had unprotected sex with 3 men in a short space of time and is asking advice on who people would think has the highest chance of being the doesn't make her any less professional 🤣 that's the weirdest thing I've ever heard

When do you ovulate?

If around CD14 then it's most likely B, very small chance it's A, tbh. If later, say CD16 or later then could well be either.

Date B