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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Did you get a BFP having only done the deed once?!

82 replies

Soono · 08/11/2021 21:06

Due to erratic cycles and DH’s work shifts, we have only managed to DTD once this cycle, on the day of my LH peak (so one day before ovulation).

I’m looking for some success stories to keep me smiling, instead of fed up that we’ve missed our chance this month!

Thank you Smile

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BertieBotts · 09/11/2021 12:35

It doesn't actually make much difference how many times you DTD in your fertile window as long as you hit the window. More times just ensures it's more likely you'll get it at least once.

It's around a 20% chance of conception per cycle.

jolota · 09/11/2021 13:53

Yep, similar situation to you, work/staying with family meant we only had one chance to have sex whilst I was ovulating the month that we conceived.

Asthenia · 09/11/2021 14:13

We tried for 9 months every day each cycle - we were knackered. The cycle we conceived on we’d decided to stop actively trying and we did it once Grin typical!

troppibambini6 · 09/11/2021 14:16

Yep it was the first time after ds3 was born we had a couple of glasses of wine and thought it would be ok... it wasn't ds3 and ds4 are 12 months apart 😆

Aisforharlot · 09/11/2021 17:50

Yep. Was pretty unusual for DH to finish inside me, but I guess my body knew something was up and I took charge. Now 39+2.

Somerandomgirl · 09/11/2021 17:56

Yep, exactly once that month

Wotsitsits · 09/11/2021 18:18

DC1 18 months of trying, dtd 4-5 times a month and timing to cycles.

DC2 was the first unprotected dtd once we'd agreed to try for DC2 Confused I actually went for a wash after instead of lying down!

We didn't dtd again for weeks due to DC1 being demanding.. period didn't arrive.. DH's face when he saw the test was an absolute picture!!

CurryandSnuggle · 09/11/2021 18:34

Yes my DS was unplanned, one night of unprotected passion with DH whilst drunk on holiday!

OnceUponAThread · 09/11/2021 18:39

Every time I've got a BFP I've only managed one DTD in the month / fertile window. So it's definitely possible!

Dollywilde · 09/11/2021 18:42

Another here who took a year of perfectly timed sex to conceive DC1 (clear blue digital ovulation tests every month from month 3) but conceived DC2 one lunchtime when wfh - 10 minute quickie when I was on CD 24 and we weren’t trying!

Eightandahalfyears · 09/11/2021 18:45

Yes. Miscarried at 11 weeks. One period and then DTD once around ovulation the following cycle. The result is now ten years old Smile

Tront · 09/11/2021 18:50

All 3 times

Drinkingfromthebottle · 12/11/2021 18:19

I had a mirena coil. Dtd once because DP was working away from home. We weren't trying hence the coil.Blush

Starrr123 · 27/07/2023 13:59

@Soono did u get caught?

HappyAsASandboy · 27/07/2023 14:41

Yes, and then I had twins!

Gadooza · 27/07/2023 14:42

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/11/2021 21:22

Well everyone does. It's not cumulative sperm! It's one sperm. So everyone gets pregnant from one time!!!

Good point!

LittleFifteen · 27/07/2023 14:42

yes, child is now nearly 30😂

Isthisreallyok · 27/07/2023 14:45

Yes - 3 times! DTD 1 - resulted in our DD, tried for DD2 - DTD once on first cycle - pregnant but early miscarriage. DTD once on second cycle - pregnant but early miscarriage. DTD 2 times to get our 2nd DD.

Soono · 27/07/2023 18:26

Starrr123 · 27/07/2023 13:59

@Soono did u get caught?

No, turns out I am infertile due to stage 4 deep infiltrating endometriosis.

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Chanhedforthis · 27/07/2023 18:29

Yes! And im not very fertile either, 12 year age gap between mine.

imnotthatkindofmum · 27/07/2023 19:03

Baby 1 was once.

Baby 2 was about 4 times

Baby 3 was once.

CosilyRosily · 27/07/2023 19:14

Yes!

crossedwood · 27/07/2023 19:49

I haf unprotected sex once and have one kid

Emmamoo89 · 27/07/2023 20:05

Yep!

funinthesun19 · 27/07/2023 20:10

Yep, with my 3rd DC. Wasn’t trying, just got carried away one night.

DS is 8 now!

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