Almost 15 weeks and still nauseous day and night

[Somerandomgirl]

Hi..
This is my second pregnancy... very wanted...
Yet i feel so miserable from the start i can't cope with it anymore
Wasnt like this with first , i moved house even around 16 weeks had no problems cleaning cooking esting...
Now all day and night i feel this horrible sickness inside of me that cant be moved by nothing... couldnt stand food at all in the beginning, couldnt look at it or smell it... then starving day and night.. one week i have appetite ...one week dont wanna eat.. one week again eating day and night...

my bits burn some days then I'm fine.. now got piles from nothing and cant touch there when i go pee even..

I really cant cope anymore. Most days i just cry in the afternoons.
My head hurts...pressure in ears when i stand up... cant do nothing at home..havent cooked anything since this started... have horrible taste in mouth cant tell if food is good , everything tastes mostly rotten.... have another small child to look after..

Will it ever get better...i cant do this for next 6ish months....
Dont know why I'm writing this, just need to vent.. havent told anyone yet we're expecting so cant complain to noone...
Feel so so alone and miserable... what kept u going if u went through this....

I was the same, didn't take medication because it was €100 a month and I kept thinking it would end this week/next week etc. Have you asked your gp for medication for the nausea? And for the piles?

@Garman

I was the same, didn't take medication because it was €100 a month and I kept thinking it would end this week/next week etc. Have you asked your gp for medication for the nausea? And for the piles?

I had piles with first pregnancy they didn't give me anything so wont even ask this time... its just one thing on top of the other that's draining me... and unless I'm physically sick and can't eat they dont give medication for that too here ... i eat, just everything tastes rotten, drinks too... keep hoping it will stop...and still going...

This all sounds normal sorry, except for the part about your bits burning and not being even able to touch there when you pee? That’s definitely not normal. Perhaps you need to see Dr for a UTI? Might explain why you feel so crap.

@SweetBabyCheeses99

This all sounds normal sorry, except for the part about your bits burning and not being even able to touch there when you pee? That’s definitely not normal. Perhaps you need to see Dr for a UTI? Might explain why you feel so crap.

Thank you but no thats only from today, cause piles itch and hurt/sting cant touch there.. the burning down generally i get simply from change of hormones.. no other symptoms with it...comes and goes.. (i feel like this before every period generally...exactly the same as now...tested for uti exactly on those days never was anything.. just now its months and months... ) Gonna be a nerve wreck by the time i have this baby if my body dont chill finally

Have you OTC stuff for the piles at least?

@Garman yea I'll have to tell bf to go buy some gel... embarass him as usual pharmacy is in next town hope something works before i go crazy ..i dont even remember what i did in first pg lol think our brains get purposely erased after we give birth so we dont remember all this crap

You can buy cream, suppositories, witch Hazel wipes etc all online if you can't get to a chemist easily.

@Garman i know...but its friday... gonna arrive next week if online or pay a lot for Saturday delivery..he's gonna go now..hope he finds what i need

Hi op. The burning down below sounds like thrush. You can use canestan cream (clotrimazole) to treat in pregnancy.

@QueenLagertha ugh i had pessary last month hope its not it again! Thank you
I will have soon 16 week midwife appointment I'll ask if she can test

16 weeks today and woke up feeling horrible again..when will this end....

@Somerandomgirl sympathies. I'm 20 weeks and still rely on anti sickness medications. The constipation is very bad and I have to swig on lactulose.

@thingymaboob got horrible constipation yesterday too, hours until made myself go finally... all blocked. Then all night sore.. this morning managed to go..but now with this horrible taste in my mouth its just!!!!!
Does lactulose help you? I'm afraid to takr anything cause one day cant stop going toilet, next day constipated..ive no idea what to do anymore its all gone bonkers with this pregnancy
Hope yours eases a bit, so many weeks to go still 😶😣😭

Well not getting any better yet.... heartburn like hell now too.... guess to expect this til end.... ?... 17+ weeks now....

Dude I’m 34 weeks and still feel like this. You just got to get through it!

@SpicyPickle22 just so fed up being unwell! Not even half way there! Its my rant place i guess. We havent told anyone so noone knows and noone to complain to and my partner is so "helpful"...
Hope you get a break from this xx if not..at least hope time goes fast until baby comes!

It’s awful isn’t it. My partner is already arranging his vasectomy

@Somerandomgirl lactulose does help. I take ondansetron which is notorious for causing constipation. I'm 21 weeks and vomit violently everyday. I hate it. Second and last pregnancy for me!

@SpicyPickle22 @thingymaboob haha! i dont mind having million children to look after if they just happen like instantly... but this pregnancy thing is really something awful!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Well 19 weeks now and really starting to hate every single hour of this , i can not stand it anymore.
Midwives helped with nothing on the appointment but push to get covid jab.
I asked and asked and asked, all they cared was to get the damn jab. Make sure i dont die of covid, but i might as well kill myself with how i feel.
I'm gonna go insane with this nausea! Hasnt stopped for a freaking day, every single day and night!!!! Instead of getting better now feel even closer to throwing up. Was long gone by this time qith my first. Now i have no hope anymore, it will just stay until the end FfS

I’ve read through your posts, but couldn’t see if you’re on medication? If not, could you ask your GP for cyclizine? I’ve been taking it since 9 weeks (currently 17 weeks) and it’s definitely helped my sickness and vomiting.

@Derbee no,im not, i keep hoping it will pass this week next week,next day.... as i was managing alright first pregnancy so i havent asked...

And to be honest all pills make me feel sick even vitamins so I've become so afraid to take anything at all.
Just want it to get better.... 😣😥 and enjoy this pregnancy and not just be mental wreck

Please get a GP appointment and tell them how bad you feel! Pregnancy is really hard for some people but there are ways to help. Ask for anti nausea medication and something for the piles. My nausea stopped at 20 weeks, so it may go soon with any luck. I felt much better after that. Any other problems like heartburn etc I felt I could cope with because I was just so pleased not to feel sick anymore! I’m sure you have but just checking you’ve tried the wrist bands? They took the edge off for me. Make yourself eat, getting hungry makes you feel much worse. Keep going, you can do it

@Somerandomgirl travel bands helped me a lot. They’re cheap and easy to find. Acupuncture also helped, but it was quite pricey (£50 per session) every week.

I don’t have personal experience, but I know there are suppositories available too, if you can’t manage swallowing pills for whatever reason. I’d talk to your GP, and hope they’re helpful. There is always the option of a private prescription too. Good luck

[quote Somerandomgirl]@Derbee no,im not, i keep hoping it will pass this week next week,next day.... as i was managing alright first pregnancy so i havent asked...

And to be honest all pills make me feel sick even vitamins so I've become so afraid to take anything at all.
Just want it to get better.... 😣😥 and enjoy this pregnancy and not just be mental wreck[/quote]
I was exactly like you. Third pregnancy and the sickness (vomiting and nausea) is something else.

I would strongly suggest medication, I was apprehensive at first, convince it was going to pass but I caved when I stopped wanting to do anything other than sleep.

I started on cyclizine, it helped a little and a persevered with it for 6 weeks but then a caved again and did a quick e consult at my gps and they prescribed me promethazine which has been an absolutely game changer these last 2 days...and just one time for my 40th birthday today.

Anyway, all I'm saying is definitely reconsider medication as even I regret not being more proactive and getting it sorted earlier.