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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

UK covid restrictions easing & pregnancy, how do you feel?

81 replies

Peachesavent · 22/02/2021 16:55

Hey girls! How is everyone feeling with the news of the COVID restrictions easing in the UK? I am 7+4 so still really early on but I must admit I'm already feeling a little anxious at the thought of normal life returning especially as not many people know I'm pregnant yet... I'm in so many group chats where social events are being discussed already... Same for my other half... Just want to do everything to keep me and baby safe though?! Xx

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Skymum82 · 22/02/2021 16:58

I have wrote a very similar post, I feel social restrictions will be lifted as I'm heading into the dangerous third trimester with 3 children at school. 🙄. 2 of them get taxis as well as are in a sen school. I can't see me mixing either. But all the children's families at school will all be mixing. It's like people think this vaccine is 100% effective 🤦🏼‍♀️

BrightBean · 22/02/2021 17:08

I'm pretty scared! And feel a bit like pregnant women have been forgotten about.
I'm due late May and worried that work is going to ask me to go back in beforehand. That my husband might have to go back in and bring Covid home. We've both been very fortunate to have worked from home this last year.
I have so many questions going through my head like will I still need to isolate when everyone is back to normal? Will people forget that pregnant women are still high risk and generally advised not to have the vaccine? Will we protected from Covid when we have our medical appointments? How will I say no to people wanting to visit the baby? Will people just turn up anyway (like they did the first time)?

kensue19 · 22/02/2021 17:15

I'm over the moon. I'm fit and healthy and most of my older family are now vaccinated so I'm not so worried about them. I cannot wait to see people again and hopefully give my newborn baby a relatively normal introduction to the world!

Meredithgrey1 · 22/02/2021 17:19

I wonder if the advice for taking more caution (wfh where possible etc) in the third trimester will remain. Most pregnant women won’t be vaccinated so even if restrictions lift it might be good to still have that recommendation in place.
I guess that sort of detail won’t have been said yet though.

DollyParton2 · 22/02/2021 17:21

Feel the same kensue I’ve never been worried about catching Covid particularly, slightly more now I’m pregnant but much happier at the thought of being able to hang out with friends / family and my baby in the summer and show him off!

albairlanda · 22/02/2021 17:23

@kensue19 @DollyParton2 I'm due 1st august and feel same. Have 2 children at primary and I'm so glad I won't be homeschooling much longer. That has been a struggle pregnant.

Skymum82 · 22/02/2021 17:23

@BrightBean

I'm pretty scared! And feel a bit like pregnant women have been forgotten about. I'm due late May and worried that work is going to ask me to go back in beforehand. That my husband might have to go back in and bring Covid home. We've both been very fortunate to have worked from home this last year. I have so many questions going through my head like will I still need to isolate when everyone is back to normal? Will people forget that pregnant women are still high risk and generally advised not to have the vaccine? Will we protected from Covid when we have our medical appointments? How will I say no to people wanting to visit the baby? Will people just turn up anyway (like they did the first time)?
I feel the same as you. I'm not due till October! But feel it could all be starting again in my third trimester and can't have the vaccine for ages. Feel really worried 😢
Yummymummy2020 · 22/02/2021 17:29

I’m due in may and shielding as I have a few other issues that put me at extra risk. I’m really wary about having to go in to give birth without the vaccine as I’m afraid of picking it up in there (will be in a few days after for sure due to the health stuff). It’s a scary time for us all being pregnant, hopefully it will be ok though!

PurpleCurtain · 22/02/2021 17:30

Trying to be pleased but on the whole a bit anxious. My main concern is people insisting on "making up for lost time" and feeling like I can't say no to endless visits from friends and family (due in July, and have already been clear we will have a very strict 2 week no visitors rule post birth, but tempted to up that!). My threshold for socialising will be different to pre-pregnancy and pre-covid and I think it will all make me feel exhausted! I also worry that people will try to insist on visiting even if they are unwell etc (even if not with COVID).

Peachesavent · 22/02/2021 17:32

@kensue19 @DollyParton2 No that's the thing - previously I wasn't worried about catching it either as I too am fit & healthy/exercise most days, and whenever we were allowed to socialise last year or go to the pub with friends I jumped at the chance!! I am still exercising most days and would like to keep it up during my pregnancy but I must admit the thought of meeting up with my best friends for dins & drinks in spring has given me a little anxiety this afternoon!! Some of our friends haven't had kids yet either so will definitely be out all the time mingling 😂

@BrightBean @Skymum82 @Meredithgrey1 do you think gps/midwives will be able to update on what's best for pregnant women? I am yet to meet with mine as early on! Xx

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luxxlisbon · 22/02/2021 17:39

Honestly, I feel great about it!
I'm due in July and I'm feeling so hopeful that life could be almost normal by the time she is in the world.
I found out I was pregnant the day before the November lockdown was announced and it has been a constant state of restrictions ever since.
Most of my friends have never seen me during the pregnancy and my mum has only seen me once, and who knows when the next time will be!

Inmypjsagain · 22/02/2021 17:42

I am really quite worried. By the time we have normality with no restrictions, we won’t be covid free, which means there’s still risk albeit a much lower risk.

I will be in my third trimester then which is when the risk heightens for those who are pregnant, I’m due in august and I am client facing. Unless the government have special guidance in place for us, it just seems we’ll be expected to return to normal? My employer won’t continue to let me work from home unless I have some guidance to back it up.... so I’m really hoping there’ll be something in place to protect us.

I understand we will never be covid free and have to get back to some semblance of a normal life, but I still think those at risk should be protected.

If friends suggest meeting up in June I will definitely be saying no!

SisterCreep · 22/02/2021 17:47

I'm due in April and can't wait for restrictions to be lifted. The whole way through my pregnancy has been a complete battle with my workplace etc, as there has been no clear cut guidelines from the government the whole way through.
I'm only sad that the restrictions won't be eased earlier as I'm dreading being at stuck at home on my own for the first few weeks without being able to see anyone indoors. I can only hope that the labour goes well and i don't have to have a c-section, because then I wouldn't even be able to visit people in their gardens.

Analysethat · 22/02/2021 17:55

I cannot wait to get back to normal!

I’m not worried in the slightest about catching it(think Ive had it anyway) and have never feared it. Life has to go back to normal otherwise things will just get worse for kids in school, people losing their jobs etc.

bewitchingnight · 22/02/2021 18:15

Overall I'm really pleased about the news, I'm not due until September but I am happy to think there are elements of a normal pregnancy that I will be able to enjoy - telling friends and family in person for example.

I worry about the vaccine - if offered and able to have it whilst pregnant I would do, I wonder if the recommendations will change as time goes on.

With worries about being social and having visits I think it's up to me to draw the line with what I am comfortable doing, I'll be on the cautious side with friends in order to maximise family time but that's just personal preference.

I'm intrigued whether the third trimester guidelines will stay in place, I would assume so but we probably won't hear until further down the line.

MooreLew · 22/02/2021 18:24

I'm concerned. I have pre eclampsia so may be admitted to hospital anyway. If not I will have to go back to working in a school, where social distancing just doesn't work, in my third trimester after we had 60 cases in two weeks in October ans had to lockdown our school. I can't buy into the rubbish the government says about schools not being major sources of transmission. I think pregnant women in their 3rd trimester should be protected more.

Skymum82 · 22/02/2021 18:24

@bewitchingnight

Overall I'm really pleased about the news, I'm not due until September but I am happy to think there are elements of a normal pregnancy that I will be able to enjoy - telling friends and family in person for example.

I worry about the vaccine - if offered and able to have it whilst pregnant I would do, I wonder if the recommendations will change as time goes on.

With worries about being social and having visits I think it's up to me to draw the line with what I am comfortable doing, I'll be on the cautious side with friends in order to maximise family time but that's just personal preference.

I'm intrigued whether the third trimester guidelines will stay in place, I would assume so but we probably won't hear until further down the line.

I can't see what the point would be with worrying about women over 28 weeks if everything is open as normal. As only a few would be able to stay safe any way. Husbands at work, kids at school, visiting family. There would be very little point. :/ .
Skymum82 · 22/02/2021 18:25

@MooreLew

I'm concerned. I have pre eclampsia so may be admitted to hospital anyway. If not I will have to go back to working in a school, where social distancing just doesn't work, in my third trimester after we had 60 cases in two weeks in October ans had to lockdown our school. I can't buy into the rubbish the government says about schools not being major sources of transmission. I think pregnant women in their 3rd trimester should be protected more.
I totally agree but can't see how we will be now 😢
Nat4392 · 22/02/2021 18:42

I couldn’t be happier, the lifting of the restrictions couldn’t come soon enough! I’m due end of May and desperate to go to a restaurant one last time before I give birth! Not to mention seeing friends that haven’t even seen me pregnant yet. All my appointments have been in person at the hospital anyway so nothing will change from that respect.

Wanderlust20 · 22/02/2021 22:47

I'm worried too, I'm glad it's not just me! Have wanted to share my feelings for a while on here but worried about getting flamed... Honestly, I've loved being pregnant during a pandemic! I can dodge nosey questions and avoid people trying to stroke my bump. I didn't need to lie about not drinking/not wanting to go out. I can just stay at home braless and in peace 😂 I've still had odd comments/questions but I just think it would have been so much worse if things were normal. I know I'm in the minority but I've just always found it odd how you become public property when pregnant... I'm quite a private person but also just don't like being made a fuss of. Sorry, rant over, I realise my reasons for being worried are twofold and slightly different from the OP but I am also worried about my health (as well as all the social change that would come with lifting restrictions).

MissingCoffeeandWine · 22/02/2021 23:33

I’m so excited. I’m pregnant due in May. Im a health care practitioner so not ignorant to covid risks but there is more to maternal health than just it. Honestly having children’s centers, health care visitors, baby groups, and other spaces open that new moms can socialize in will be brilliant.

I expect that given the covid risk in final trimester, women could be asked to shield and guidance will cover WFH to continue. And yes. They can suggest this even when society is open. It’s the same decision risk/balance all other shielders had to make for the last year. Many of whom had kids entitled to school places or family members that worked in high risk environments.

There is very limited risk to newborns. So family visits etc. can be negotiated. And some won’t feel comfortable. But I’m glad people will have individual choice about risk management (Ie weighing up: I haven’t slept in 3 days, I’m exhausted, and not being patient, and I need someone else to hold my baby for two hours while I shower and nap and if they can do that outside wearing a mask if necessary to make me more comfortable so be it.)

But also relieved for overall well-being and mental health, and for the economic reality that our children are going to have to be raised in.

I do hear that it’s scary in pregnancy, but, we are only high risk for a short period in pregnancy, and the actual time spent with baby once they arrive is much longer! I’ve a one year old and Mat Leave under “stay at home” in a limited space with my partner working at home, raising a new baby with no access to family support, has been hard. I’m so glad my next mat leave will have more opportunity to see others, to keep myself fit, to perhaps even go on a date with my husband and have a baby sitter (the dream 😆)

Skymum82 · 23/02/2021 04:14

But it won't be the same as shielders last year will it!!!

🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
Last year there were masks, social restrictions, night clubs not open, all places had social distancing, even zoos, farms, attractions were having less people in them. By June this will all be gone 🤦🏼‍♀️. Glad your baby will be hear in may just before 🤣.
My kids will go to school, with kids that have been swimming, to attractions etc, parents that have been clubbing with 100 people squashed together yet there will be no bigger risk of covid then there was last year 🤦🏼‍♀️.

Skymum82 · 23/02/2021 04:15

Even food shopping we won't be able to do as no one will be wearing masks, will be able to come close and no distancing needed. Don't even say the risks wil be the same.

THATbasicSNOWFLAKE · 23/02/2021 07:28

I'm feeling a bit anxious about it all

21 weeks now, live next to an area with high rates

4 dc returning to school

Have been on furlough but may be called back

Pulledamonica · 23/02/2021 07:33

I'm worried because I'm a teacher and will be back at school in two weeks when I'll be 20 weeks pregnant. Agree with PP who said pregnant women seem to have been forgotten about. Would like some specific guidance on how safe we are.