Haven't told my ex I'm pregnant

[Mims123]

Hi guys,

I am 6 weeks pregnant now with my ex's baby. I haven't told him yet as he works away, but I know he's going to take it really badly and be really annoyed that this has happened. It was a pure accident but I would like to keep the baby.

I am so anxious about telling him, we have a house together but we were in the process of splitting all of that. I had a mmc 2 years ago and this is my first pregnancy since. I'm so overly worried about losing this one that I don't feel I want to tell him until 12 weeks for 2 reasons: one is that I don't want the added stress and the second being that I don't want to put him through all the coming to terms with it when there's a chance of miscarriage anyway.

Is this totally morally wrong? I have no idea what to do so just looking for advice! Thankyou x

Aw OP, I really sympothize with you because I am in the exact same boat as you just now. I have decided to keep my baby with my ex, he's not happy about it at all and have had phonecalls from him and his family etc trying to bully me into an abortion, I found out really early and told him straight away, I had a scan yesterday and was so paranoid about MC because of all the stress and previous ones but Im now 8 weeks and saw a little heartbeat. The best thing I've done is block them all, I didn't need the stress and I'm starting to feel alot more calm. Do not let them bully you into an abortion if you don't want one, he got himself into this situation by sleeping with you, it takes 2 people to make a baby! I hope your ok